mom and dad fighting over me

[DarkWingedAngel]

so this is it my parents are fighting over me
literally tugawar over me
i punched another wall today i put a hole in the wall
my just sitting here crying my eyes out while my parents are fighting in cort right now

i started to cut agen after 2 weeks without it because my came over just to tell me it was my fault
im a wreak like this i just wan't to die
im sick and tired of this and i have no one to go cry to

im so fucking pissed
i wish i never was born or that i would die

[Zephyr]

Man, I'm sorry.
My parents spent years fighting over custody as well,
Though they were just in it for the child support.

It's frustrating, stressful and pointless.

Why don't you suggest what I did to my parents:
"Let me write a letter or talk to the judge myself, telling them my opinion on everything and what I would like to see what happens to me."

Honestly, you should.
Look at it this way: You're almost old enough now to make most of your own decisions, so you should know what's best for you. Not your parents, not a judge, but you.

Hope things get better,
Sorry this has to happen to you hun.

[DarkWingedAngel]

i hope it gets better because i don't wan't life like this anymore i sick of it
and if it don't go then I will

[byee]

If only parents knew how these court dramas affected the kids.

2 things, Desi. First, i sure hope you hve a therapist or counsellor to talk with. You'd do so well having someone else there for you, another adult who can focus and attend just on you.

Second, I wonder what would happen if you CALMLY tried to talk with your folks about how all this affects you and how miserable you are? I think a lot of parents are just so angry and upset at their ex spouse that they sometimes forget how that anger affects their judgements and decisions, and how that stuff ultimately affects the kids. Anger is a powerful thing, it sometimes blocks out reasoning skills. maybe if you were able to shine a light on your reaction (and feelings) to these things, they might take it into consideration and respond if not to eachother differently, at least with more awareness to your pain.