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BeautifulSilence
December 14th, 2008, 12:29 PM
If someone told you they thought about you while masturbating?
Is it a compliment or just gross?
Is it different depending on how you communicate with them [e.g if you only know them online or if you were good friends with them]?
Do you think that guys and girls will react differently to the situation?
Have you ever told anyone that you masturbate thinking of them?
How did they react or how do you think they would react?
GO!
DarkWingedAngel
December 14th, 2008, 12:33 PM
well it really depends on how i think of them
if they are a creeper then im grossed out but if it someone i like then i take it as a compliment.
i don't the think guys would react differently.
yes i did tell a guy that i do he just said cool
new_kid_on_the_block
December 14th, 2008, 06:45 PM
haha oh shit on friday me n my m8s were talking about this exact subject lol anyway we all came to the conclusion if it was someone we could picture ourself having sex with then well errrr ask her to try it out :) and if it was like someone we couldnt then id just say err thanks i guess
iceyfresh
December 14th, 2008, 07:15 PM
depending on the person but most likely a compliment
Camazotz
December 14th, 2008, 08:03 PM
If someone told you they thought about you while masturbating? I would laugh and tease them. But I would also make a move on her if it was a girl. If it was a guy, I'd be creeped out.
Is it a compliment or just gross? Girl- Compliment. Guy- Gross compliment
Is it different depending on how you communicate with them [e.g if you only know them online or if you were good friends with them]? It depends on how well I know them. If they were my best friend, it'd be weird. If it was somebody I knew, it wouldn't be as awkward.
Do you think that guys and girls will react differently to the situation? Oh yes, definitely. If I told a girl, she'd probably sue me for sexual harassment. If she said it to me, I would just smile.
Have you ever told anyone that you masturbate thinking of them? No, and I don't plan to.
How did they react or how do you think they would react? They would probably freak out.
byee
December 14th, 2008, 08:33 PM
oh, Laura. Please tell me this is a hypothetical question, OK?
I think whatever the motivation behind this disclosure, it is, at best, indiscrete, and at worst, grossly inappropriate. It's sharing something veeery personal, which is OK in general, but when it comes to sexual things, it's sorta lewd. Unless you have a very close, intimate (sexual) relationship with them to start with.
Rutherford The Brave
December 15th, 2008, 06:45 AM
Believe it or not this has actually happened to me before, by both girls and boys.
Is it a compliment or just gross? I personally think it is a compliment
Is it different depending on how you communicate with them [e.g if you only know them online or if you were good friends with them]? Yeah but I'm not offended by it.
Do you think that guys and girls will react differently to the situation? Yeah
Have you ever told anyone that you masturbate thinking of them? No, seeing as I do not masturbate
How did they react or how do you think they would react? N/A
BeautifulSilence
December 15th, 2008, 06:18 PM
Well, I don't really need to say what I was doing when it first came to mind but... I just tried to imagine how the people I was thinking of would react if I told them...
I would try to take it as a compliment, but be grossed out at the same time.
I think that a lot of the girls I know would have it depend on the person who told them, whereas the guys I know would all love that fact.
I think that mine would take it as a joke, but I'd probably never tell them because some I know too well and things would get awkward and others have... more authority :P
Archer600
December 15th, 2008, 08:11 PM
Well it depends on if they're joking or if they're serious
If it was a joke I'd just laugh about it
If they were serious I wouldn't realy care but I'd keep a good didstance from them I only masterbate with one other guy and no one else exept a girl is slowed near there
arriving_late
December 16th, 2008, 12:42 AM
it seems to me that most guys would view it as an honor to be present during a girls masturbation session. most of the girls i am around though would not react well at all if a guy told them that he masturbates thinking of them.
Aηdy
December 16th, 2008, 03:32 PM
Is it a compliment or just gross? It really depends on who it is!
Is it different depending on how you communicate with them [e.g if you only know them online or if you were good friends with them]? If I knew them online only then I woulnd't care too much. If it was a good friend then it could make things awkward.
Do you think that guys and girls will react differently to the situation? Possibly, I think guys may feel a little more freaked out. It does differ from person to person though.
Have you ever told anyone that you masturbate thinking of them? I have indeed.
How did they react or how do you think they would react? I can't remember to be honest, I know it wasn't a bad reaction though.
Talia
December 17th, 2008, 03:41 AM
Depends who it is. If it was like some old guy (or girl) I'd be like okaaay then and probably keep my distance. Otherwise I think I'd be sort of flattered but also awkward o.o
Is it a compliment or just gross? compliment
Is it different depending on how you communicate with them [e.g if you only know them online or if you were good friends with them]? I don''t really think so. Unless they've never even seen you before then, yeah..
Do you think that guys and girls will react differently to the situation? Yes, every person = different
Have you ever told anyone that you masturbate thinking of them? No, usually its not explicitly that person anyway
How did they react or how do you think they would react? n/a
Lady of the night
December 17th, 2008, 01:40 PM
its actually a compliment of sorts but at times it can be different depending on your relationship with the person I suppose. I mean id probably just accept it and if i didnt think it was gonna grow to be a problem....leave it alone.
I have told someone I was doing so and he responded with likewise enthusiasm. lol...you can guess what came next....we hooked up.
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alsoknownas
December 17th, 2008, 01:54 PM
guy or an unatractive girl then gross
fit girl, nice :D
Lady of the night
December 17th, 2008, 02:13 PM
guy or an unatractive girl then gross
fit girl, nice :D
the typical male response.
Aηdy
December 17th, 2008, 02:31 PM
the typical male response.
I agree!
alsoknownas
December 17th, 2008, 03:12 PM
meh its true no point saying otherwise.
i wouldnt tell the person it was gros but thats how id fell about it so yea, hate me for it if you want
Lady of the night
December 17th, 2008, 04:50 PM
I dont spread hate ,love. merely saying that its what most guys would say. lol. sex these days is based so much on appearances. kind of makes me sick.
BeautifulSilence
December 17th, 2008, 07:44 PM
sex these days is based so much on appearances. kind of makes me sick.
Well, if sex is going to be a completely physical, no strings etc thing, then appearences would be everything... There has to be an attraction of some kind, otherwise, it's no fun :P
In any relationship, with or without sex, there is an attraction. Some are more emotional, some just more physical.
Aussie_hotlegs
December 17th, 2008, 07:56 PM
I would be flattered and take it as a huge compliment; if they are feeling sexual and masturbating and the thought of me was helping them.. WHOA!
If it was a girl saying, it might be a tad weird though.
LeRoy_Fan
December 18th, 2008, 01:24 AM
I personally, being a guy, would probably feel a little weird about it, but then just kind of forget about it.
I don't think it would phase me much.
I think girls would find it a little creepier though..
Galinofied
December 18th, 2008, 08:12 AM
meh it would be a little weird since i still dont asscociate masterbation with females (yes i know they do it) but i'd probably take it as a compliment unless it was told really creepily
BeautifulSilence
December 18th, 2008, 11:58 AM
unless it was told really creepily
Haha, what like they said it while masturbating? :P
miromiro
December 18th, 2008, 10:30 PM
I would take that as a compliment except if i am told by someone not very familiar. Coz i think it means im hot lols, but i havent received such speech by anyone yet
Galinofied
December 19th, 2008, 09:36 AM
Haha, what like they said it while masturbating? :P
well yeah that definetly make me walk away. but i was thinking more in the tone of what they were saying. like two years ago a friend of mine at school told the girl he masturbated to that he did in front of our whole class that was creepy for everybody in the room and the girl he told ran out of the classroom crying
Barin
December 19th, 2008, 01:56 PM
Is it a compliment or just gross?if it was from a guy id be a little grossed out but if it was fro m a girl id take it as a compliment
Is it different depending on how you communicate with them [e.g if you only know them online or if you were good friends with them]? yes if sombody barely know or dont like tells me they fantasize about me while the masturbate id be very freaked out
Do you think that guys and girls will react differently to the situation?idk probably idk
Have you ever told anyone that you masturbate thinking of them?NO
How did they react or how do you think they would react? idk
eikookmi
December 20th, 2008, 04:09 AM
um it really depends on who says it to me. If its some old creep or middle aged person i might be creeped out. Otherwise i'd take it as a compliment
Is it a compliment or just gross?usually a compliment
Is it different depending on how you communicate with them [e.g if you only know them online or if you were good friends with them]? well online it would be weird if they have never even seen you before.
Do you think that guys and girls will react differently to the situation? everyone is different
Have you ever told anyone that you masturbate thinking of them? lol like two people
How did they react or how do you think they would react? no reaction .maybe a little flattered or felt special.
Jammy Jams
December 20th, 2008, 04:37 PM
Ok most of thesse just depend but
Is it a compliment or just gross?
lol depends on how you know the person, like if it was ur gf or bf then compliment, but if it was sum random person it wuld be creepy
Is it different depending on how you communicate with them [e.g if you only know them online or if you were good friends with them]? (above)
Do you think that guys and girls will react differently to the situation?
I think they do. Some horny guys would accept anyone masturbating to them, but girls (or at least the ones i know) are a lot more controlled and it depends on the situation and things.
Have you ever told anyone that you masturbate thinking of them?
yup
How did they react or how do you think they would react?
they were happy and started to masterbate to the thought of me masturbating to him....but it was my bf
Kalphite
December 20th, 2008, 04:48 PM
If someone told you they thought about you while masturbating?
Is it a compliment or just gross?compliment =]
Is it different depending on how you communicate with them [e.g if you only know them online or if you were good friends with them]?yea
Do you think that guys and girls will react differently to the situation?no
Have you ever told anyone that you masturbate thinking of them?yeah
How did they react or how do you think they would react?they acted fine
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HalfManHalfAmazing
January 10th, 2009, 11:09 AM
If someone told you they thought about you while masturbating? In person it would bit a bit awkward at least
Is it a compliment or just gross? It depends, I guess
Is it different depending on how you communicate with them [e.g if you only know them online or if you were good friends with them]? Yeah
Do you think that guys and girls will react differently to the situation? It depends
Have you ever told anyone that you masturbate thinking of them? No
How did they react or how do you think they would react? dunno
Triceratops
January 10th, 2009, 04:03 PM
I would be totally creeped out, and I would find it really gross.
I'd probably be so disturbed that I'd never talk to them ever again, honestly.
I would rather that person never speak to me again, or just never mention it to me ever.
weebananas
January 11th, 2009, 01:23 AM
That would definitely be a compliment. :)
Antares
January 11th, 2009, 02:30 AM
Is it a compliment or just gross?
Well somewhat of a compliment that I am attractive to another person but its kinda gross when the thought enters your mind.
Is it different depending on how you communicate with them [e.g if you only know them online or if you were good friends with them]?
Yes, it is
Do you think that guys and girls will react differently to the situation?
Yep
Have you ever told anyone that you masturbate thinking of them?
Umm, no!
How did they react or how do you think they would react?
n/a
Oblivion
January 11th, 2009, 02:46 AM
If someone told you they thought about you while masturbating? I would be creeped. Some girl told me she had dreams and day dreams of making out with me, and even that was kind of creepy.
Is it a compliment or just gross? Both. I would be flattered but grossed out.
Is it different depending on how you communicate with them [e.g if you only know them online or if you were good friends with them]? Slightly
Do you think that guys and girls will react differently to the situation? Yes! If a girl was told they would probably freak, a guy would be more likely to take it as a compliment
Have you ever told anyone that you masturbate thinking of them? No!
How did they react or how do you think they would react? They would freak. Lol.
philip374374
January 26th, 2009, 01:39 AM
If it was a girl that i find atractive it whould turn me on.
L
January 26th, 2009, 04:38 AM
if it was a girl i'd be fine with it but im not gay or anything so if it was a guy i'd be creeped out.
IAMWILL
January 26th, 2009, 03:07 PM
If a guy that i knew told me that id probly just be like "Cool, but keep that to yourself, i dont really wanna here it". Now if a girl told me that, its a whole 'nother story. If would probly say "Well, why not just tell me that you like me like that and we can do other stuff" or something like that. I dont think i would tell a guy if i thought about him while masturbating, and i might tell a girl, but only if i felt EXTREMELY secure and i wasnt maybe gonna see her for awhile
Blaze98
January 26th, 2009, 03:25 PM
If it was a girl, I would be flattered, to tell you the truth. :lol:
If it was a guy...err...no. I'm straight.
Trav
January 28th, 2009, 02:02 AM
really depends on who they are
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