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kevin590
December 13th, 2008, 11:52 PM
im a boy and i like this girl and my best friend (which is also a boy) too but im straight and i had a dream that us 3 were having sex but i was having sex more with my best friend then with my crush:confused:
iceyfresh
December 14th, 2008, 12:58 AM
ok first of all this thread shouldent be in the puberty fro guys forum and second of all you didnt ask a question like wtf
iJack
December 14th, 2008, 01:12 AM
ok first of all this thread shouldent be in the puberty fro guys forum and second of all you didnt ask a question like wtf
Its fine, both ways. He was asking a statement.
Its fine to dream, but be very carefull when/if you ever do anything outside of the dream.
zoig
December 14th, 2008, 03:01 AM
Shouldn't worry about it, the brain plays silly tricks when you are sleeping, I once woke up from a nightmare *CONVINCED* I was a owl, it took me quite a while to figure out why I couldn't take off and quite a bit longer to get over the realisation that I really wasn't....
Yeah that was an odd night....
Donkey
December 14th, 2008, 06:51 AM
Lol Zoig an Owl.
Kevin, it's not in your control. Dreams are nothing to worry about
alsoknownas
December 14th, 2008, 10:25 AM
dreams are random you cant stop em
keidriantiger
December 14th, 2008, 10:53 PM
If the question was something along the lines of" Why was I having sex with my best friend in the dream?" my guesses are: 1. You have known your Best Friend for longer 2. You know him better than your crush 3.You might have a secret liking for him that you don't realize. But that's just my guesses to a question I think you wanted to ask :3
Oh, I forgot to mention: CAPITALIZATION AND PUNCTUATION PLZ!
Archer600
December 14th, 2008, 11:32 PM
That's fine I have dreams like that too we can't control them
byee
December 15th, 2008, 12:32 PM
The answer to your 'secret' question is that no, this does not mean you are gay.
Dreams can mean a lot of things, some of them completely random, some of them meaningful. Your brain continues to work while you sleep, processing info or feelings or events and stuff and turning them into visual images (dreams). It takes a bit of time and practice to determine if the imagery is significant, or just a 'brain dump', getting rid of clutter up there, sorta like hitting the 'delete' button.
Depending on how I look at the content of your dream, I think a safe way of interpreting it is that you like these 2 people and maybe it's exciting to think of your crush sexually, but also scary, too, esp. if that's new for you. So, you insert your guy friend there for reassurance and comfort. It's not about sex with him, it's about her, and his place there is to provide reassurance. You know him better, and your more familiar with his responses, so his presence there is like the Teddy Bear to help make you more comfortable with the newness of your crush. It's all sexual b/c you have sexual feelings about her.
Relax.
miromiro
December 16th, 2008, 09:19 AM
Yeah there was like once i had a dream where i had sex with one girl i din like and the security came giving me condom lols. Its quite normal
curiousteen
December 16th, 2008, 04:05 PM
well its okay to dream like that most guys do its normal
kniwtohynroh
January 1st, 2009, 04:13 AM
-sorry i realised this post is agaisnt the terms & conditions so im erasing it-
LKSora
January 1st, 2009, 09:47 AM
Nothing about the dream-there's no logic in dreams
what you should care about is you
do you feel any attraction about your friend?(when you're awake of course)
geniusrocksoutloud
January 1st, 2009, 10:23 AM
Youre not gay or anything. Its normal.
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