sexuality

[reithedragonboy]

I have a question that has been bugging me for some time now. ever since i started to watch and read porn, I noticed that i always picked the one with only guys. at first, i thought it was nothing. Then, when i entered high school, i started to feel weird around guys that looked cute. it never happens around girls that look cute. plus, these feelings i have about guys, i actually like it. i never feel the same when i'm near a pretty girl. It doesnt scare me, it just has me confused. does this mean that i'm gay?

[Archer600]

If u r gay there's nothing wrong with that and u might change who knows

[byee]

No, it doesn't mean you're gay. It means you recognize and appreciate male beauty ("cuteness") and that you might be more comfortable or aware of that.

There are a lot of reasons why this might be so, it takes a while to figure out who you are and why you feel the way you do. But, I think that basically we're often aware of things that we're comfortable with (like guys), and we're often attracted to the familiar, so in your case it might just be a reflection of you're being more comfortable with guys being one yourself.

Being gay isn't just about attraction, though. It's more complex than that, it's more about how you feel about yourself and others and who you look to for emotional nurturing and so forth, who you feel most emotionally bonded to. The sexual piece really comes later, as the emotional piece happen s first, it develops slowly over time eventhough you might not be aware of it. The sexual piece comes in later in adolescence, as we're most aroused by those that we feel the emotionally closest to.

[pistonfan28]

No it does not mean that you are gay. Like IAMSAM said being gay isn't about attraction. Also being gay is not a good or bad things. It is just a life choice.

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[curiousteen]

it doesnt necessarily mean ur gay ur just probably curious or wutever and i felt the same way to entering high skool