long distance

[Burnthecity]

Hey guys, well i know this girl and we really like each other but its like, she lives in a total nother state, talking to her is amazing, she makes me feel so good about my self, but not being able to physicly be there with her, i dono what to do, its really hard, i really like this girl, and i just dono what to doo

anyone have any ideas what to do

cause i dont think i can just forget about her

[Lola4563]

I'm not really going to say one or the other. But, my boyfriend and I live a long ways away from eachother and things are fine between us.

[alsoknownas]

absence makes the heart grow fonder

[Burnthecity]

She just keeps saying she doesnt want me to get hurt, but she ssais she really wants to be with me

[Gumleaf]

you have a smart girl there. its very rare for long distance relationships to work for the long term. as you become emotionally closer you are going to be wanting to physically be together more and more. eventually that would just lead to a break up. but the positive thing here is that she cares enough about you to keep it as friends between you 2 so you don't lose everything in a nasty break up later on.

[Burnthecity]

ugh, this is so complicated, i just want to be with her so much, i stayed up last night and thought about her all night, i can get her outa my mind, she so beautiful and she just makes me so happy, but you right, the closer we get the more we want to be physically involved together, i dono what to do, im just sitting here, thinking of her

[nachtspiegel]

Being that it is one state (correct, right?) you could probably maintain it if you found a way to be able to see her. If not, I would remain as friends until you are able to see one another (whether one or both of you reach the age of being able to take a Greyhound, get a license, or find a ride.) Once you do attain that ability, if the feelings still aren't mutual or if they have changed on both ends, you know all you needed to.

[byee]

You need something (and someone) in your life that makes you feel good right now (I just responded to your other post elsewhere), so maybe for now just enjoying her and the good feelings that come along are just fine. It's good there's the internet that allows that connection!

Just keep it under control, be aware that you're particularly vulnerable right now, that you're feelijg bad and needy, which means that you're more likely to misjudge what's going on and maybe get yourself hurt....or just hang on too long, like staying up all night and so forth. Try to make this a more normal part of your life so that it fits into it, rather than take it over.

[Burnthecity]

did i put state, wow i wish it was that close, i live in canada she lives in the us, so basicly, theres no way of me seeing her