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reithedragonboy
December 12th, 2008, 02:07 PM
Say that I had another guy penetrate me or give me oral sex and he doesn't cum into me on either of them. would I still be a virgin or is it already considered gone once I'm penetrated or given oral sex by him?
legend247
December 12th, 2008, 02:29 PM
i wouldn't say so, some people disagree
the way i think of it it's only if you have vaginal sex
Jean Poutine
December 12th, 2008, 04:29 PM
No, if you get sucked off you aren't a virgin, and even less so if you get penetrated in any hole. That's in my opinion, though.
The definition of virgin varies between people. Mine is that once you do any sexual act with another person, you lose it (be it just a bj or hj, or full intercourse). Other people's definitions are way slacker though, which leads to such nonsense as "I had anal sex but I'm still a virgin". I'm sorry, but as far as I'm concerned, no you aren't.
Sorry if I sound a little rude in there brah, but "virgin" is just a label. If you feel ready to do these acts, don't let the label keep you from doing it, but do assume the fact that it's not your label anymore.
the way i think of it it's only if you have vaginal sex
Then gay people are perpetual virgins?
Θάνατος
December 12th, 2008, 04:41 PM
I would say if you were penetrated by penis then no. But if you had anal sex meaning he moved in and out or your anus then yes you had sex and you lost your virginity. Getting or giving oral sex does not constitute losing your virginity.
The fact that he didn't cum has no bearing on weather you are a virgin.
Lola4563
December 12th, 2008, 05:15 PM
Your question is a matter of opinion. You'll get a different response from almost every single person.
reithedragonboy
December 12th, 2008, 05:22 PM
So what you're saying handssolo is that if he doesn't cum into my butt or sticks his penis into my mouth, then I'm still a virgin?
would i still lose it if he sucked me off, but didn't go all the way? (all the way as in cumming into his mouth)
Θάνατος
December 13th, 2008, 12:19 AM
So what you're saying handssolo is that if he doesn't cum into my butt or sticks his penis into my mouth, then I'm still a virgin?
No what I mean to say if he penetrated you and moved it in and out at all that would be considered anal sex and no you are a not a virgin to anal sex any more. Just because he didn't cum has no bearing on whether you lost your virginity or not. The fact that you were penetrated does.
would i still lose it if he sucked me off, but didn't go all the way? (all the way as in cumming into his mouth)
No getting sucked off does not constitute you losing your virginity.
I hope this clarifies my earlier post.
reithedragonboy
December 13th, 2008, 03:15 AM
Thanks for the info, man.
That's also true if we did go all the way with him sucking me and taking my cum, right? I would still be a virgin?
Θάνατος
December 13th, 2008, 02:00 PM
If you are saying that he gave you a blow job and you came in his mouth.
Then yes you are still a virgin and so is he.
Barin
December 13th, 2008, 07:06 PM
no that would be sex and virginity means no sex at all so u would not be a virgin sorry bud
Θάνατος
December 13th, 2008, 11:25 PM
Most people don't consider oral sex as losing your virginity.
kipper
October 4th, 2009, 01:10 PM
it would be but even if he didnt cum he should still be wearing a condom
Kaleidoscope Eyes
October 4th, 2009, 01:45 PM
Please don't bump old threads, this one is over 9 months old.
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