I told my granny I'm not coming back...

[The Batman]

Yep she finally knows I'm not coming back. I asked her to send me some money since my paycheck was mailed to her house and she said she'll try and help me out when she gets some money, and I'm like just send me my check. Turns out she cashed it and spent the whole damn thing. I am seriously pissed off right now that she fucking did that. My dad told me that she probably would do that and I tried to trust her and I figured she might not do it. I have no clue what to do I'm like 3 secs from freaking out about it.

[byee]

Oh, Thomas. This isn't supposed to happen, you should be able to trust your family, I'm sorry.

Chaulk it up to 'family nonsense' (I have a less politic term for it but want to keep it PG-13), and let go of it. Money comes back to you, you continue to work. At some point, all this stuff (and that other stuff that causes you to freak out about your family) fades and becomes a distant memory.

Keep your eye on the ball here, it's about tomorrow, not today or yesterday.

[zoig]

Are there no other folks in your family you can trust to loan you a bit till you get this sorted?

[pontiacdriver]

Yep she finally knows I'm not coming back. I asked her to send me some money since my paycheck was mailed to her house and she said she'll try and help me out when she gets some money, and I'm like just send me my check. Turns out she cashed it and spent the whole damn thing. I am seriously pissed off right now that she fucking did that. My dad told me that she probably would do that and I tried to trust her and I figured she might not do it. I have no clue what to do I'm like 3 secs from freaking out about it.

I am sure that you have some legal options with regards to your Grandmother cashing your check. You should report your paycheck as being stolen to your employer ASAP so that they can issue a stop payment on it. Because most checks take 3-5 business days to clear, then your employer's bank can refuse to pay the draft presented to it. However, you need to start making telephone calls now so that you can get your money back.

What you need to do immediately is to file a change of address with the United States Postal Service by visiting the following website: https://moversguide.usps.com/icoa/flow.do?_flowExecutionKey=_cDCB2C0FD-4C82-4B68-8ACA-FD02CA6C1C85_k3B7A6FF8-3907-ABD6-3345-919655574400
You can also pick up a mover's guide from your local post office/postal station.

You really should submit a change of address form for anyplace that has your information such as the IRS https://moversguide.usps.com/icoa/flow.do?_flowExecutionKey=_cDCB2C0FD-4C82-4B68-8ACA-FD02CA6C1C85_k3B7A6FF8-3907-ABD6-3345-919655574400, your DMV, and any other place that would mail your either financial information or important documents.

You have made the right decision by moving out, and I hope things work out for you.