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just-me
December 10th, 2008, 12:10 PM
i posted a while back about telling my ex about my s/h.
well today ive now heard the full story of how he keeps asking my mates if i bitch about him and why i blank him, and my mate told him that i called him a dickhead so of course im not gunna be best buddies, and my ex turned round and said:
"well maybe i should just go tell her secret then"
my mate sayed hes guessing i told him some sort of secret, he doesnt know, but my ex obviously knowing this would get back to me thought he would just scare me shitless!!

i know its probably an empty threat, but this now, thisfeeling, is way beyond that.
how could you joke about this? its sick! this is my life he is playing with ...

Sapphire
December 10th, 2008, 12:21 PM
You are right, it is probably an empty threat.

In case it isn't though, stop calling him names behind his back and just keep a civil tongue with regards to him.

just-me
December 10th, 2008, 12:36 PM
thats the thing i dont!
i may have said it once when we broke up and thats it! if that.
ive done nothing wrong.
i dont bitch about him or anything, i dont see the point.
im getting punished for doing nothin wrong...

Sapphire
December 10th, 2008, 12:58 PM
Then just carry on as you are.
As wrong and as petty as it was of him to try to use it against you, he probably didn't know that it was so long ago.