my brother tricked me into sucking on his cock

[lildudeinFL]

is that rape, incest, just a horny teen?? he says he is sorry now but i hate the hell out of him. he was 14 and i was 6 when it got started. he is gonna be home again next week for Christmas, i atleast wish i had my own room. I want him to just stay in college and not come home.

[Sapphire]

You've already asked this and it has already been answered. What more do you want?

If you are worried about anything happening over Christmas, just say "no". If he continues to try after that, tell your parents.

[Mirataku]

has he already been answered?

[Sapphire]

Yes, it has.

http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=28731

[Green_Fan]

yeah it's considered as raping, u were 6!!!!!!!!!

[byee]

I can understand why you might want to continue talking about this, esp. since the abuser (your bro) is coming home for a visit.

I think there are 2 issues here: First is what he did back then, and all those feelings you have as a result. Violation isn't something gotten over easily, it takes time, and most often, some help. The other is what he can do now.
It's important to keep all the memories (however horrible and vivid) in the past and not let them overtake you. You're much older now, and can easily defend yourself and protect yourself. He cannot do this to you again.

The feelings are more difficult to address. You have choices here, you can either tell someone, so that they can assist you in feelig safe. You can tell him, which might be an option now or at some point in the future. Or you can choose to keep it to yourself. But whatever you do, try to keep yesterday in it's place and focus/remember that you can protect yourself now and he cannot hurt you.

[Irock]

ok the people up above saying nthis already been posted thats so rude ok,
these kid was put through torture and you guys say rude things.
also i do agree if this does continue tell your parents and i did have this done to me when i was younger so i know what you mean but i for gave the person im not saying you have to but ....... i don't know what else to say atleast on here if you wanna talk in chat abut it sometime idc.

[Eclipse]

I know you're new here, so am I, but all the people above that say that he has already been answered aren't being rude, just asking why he reposted on the same subject, that's it. Ok, back on topic. I doubt he will try any thing, since your older and now know what he did to you was wrong. If he does try anything, just tell your parents.

[allovergood]

is it just me or is your username have "dude" in it and your profile says your a male?? hmmmmm

[Neverender]

is it just me or is your username have "dude" in it and your profile says your a male?? hmmmmm

Yeah, hes a guy; and guys can give blowjobs too.

[Dutlee]

its not rape caz u did not fight back

[Atonement]

This is a 9-month old thread and as such, will be locked. Please check the original posting date prior to posting in a thread. Also, this thread should have been locked originally because it is a duplicate of an already made thread as a poster stated.

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