Eh what should i do?

[silentc0re]

Ok i asked this girl out to the movies she said sure
now.... what do i do? How do i plan it ? How do i ask her if anyone else is coming with her? How do i plan this please help I dont want to screw this up.:confused:

[ThatCanadianGuy]

? How do i ask her if anyone else is coming with her? How do i plan this please help I dont want to screw this up.:confused:

Just some advice for that particular part.... um NO!!!!

Don't even think about asking her if anyone else is coming! This is supposed to be a DATE right? If YOU don't say anything then it'll just be the two of you.... which is a lot better then having an annoying 5th wheel keeping the "romance" from happening if you know what I mean :cool:

It's pretty much been planned already. You asked. She said yes. She obviously just likes you the way you are. Be yourself; just pick her up and go to the movies and have a good time. No worries. If you just relax and enjoy yourself everything should turn out great.

[silentc0re]

Ues this is supposed to be a date because i liked her and she said im only a freind but later she got to know me better and i could kinda feel that she likes me ,then she asked me if i want to goto the movies but i didnt answer and she wrote "jk" i didnt answer because i was speechless then i asked her do you want to go and she said "sure" Now .........But i cant drive lol i meant like what should i do when i get there? and how should i plan it? I think i would just ask my mom or dad to drive me (im not ashamed of asking them) Like what should i do during the movie? How do i know if i can like hold her hand or put my hand on the of her chair? Sry but this is my first date. Just if u can tell me all of what u would do when u take a girl to the movies. If its no too much to ask for + she wants to see a horror movie.


what should i tell her on AIM?>

[silentc0re]

She has a sister that is only like 2 years older than her and i dont want her getting in the way + idk if the person that is driving her is coming with her to see the movie. thats why idk what to ask/do

[ThatCanadianGuy]

lol... is she hot? Then she can come! :D

Just kidding... maybe :P

Don't sweat the hand-holding thing or the seat. It's a scary movie; its a BIG indicator right there. If she's the type to get scared easily, she'll grab onto YOU without any need for YOU to do anything. Just let HER do it first. Once she grabs your arm or something at a scary part... let her keep holding on. Or hold her hand then.

[silentc0re]

Idk if she gets scared that easily but yeah so i should just arrange a date and ask her to pick a movie and go? and find out for what to happen? And if she dosent grab onto my arm i should just watch teh movie and not do anything?

[byee]

Awwwwww.......a first date, good for you! And good for you for being a little anxious, it shows you want it to work and that you're willing to put the effort in!

First off, relax. She accepted, she likes you! The hard part is over.

First dates are less scary if you have more time with them BEFORE the big day, it gets you both a bit more familiar with eachother. So, you can chat/IM/phone, using the plan making as the 'excuse'. Have a newspaper in front of you and talk with her about which movies are out there, and jointly make a decision. (Actually, let her make the decision unless you've seen it). I agree that in the absence of some statement form her, expect it to be just the 2 of you and leave it at that.

Then, discuss transportation, and unless you can hoof it, mention that your folks will do the driving.

In the movie, make sure you pay for both of you, get ONE popcorn bucket, preferably large enough so you both get enough. Sharing popcorn is a way of being just a bit closer, it sort of reinforces it's a date. Seperate sodas, however.

In the movie, plan on NOT touching her for the first date. That way, there won't be this pressure to do so, or to figure out if you should. Typically, most guys 'know' when it's OK to hold hands or the *Yawn and stretch around the shoulder* routine. Typically, she'll move into you, she'll lean towards you or otherwise make it really obvious she's ok with this. In the absence of those signals, just enjoy eachother. Remember to make lots of eye contact and smile at her a lot.

When you walk her to the door afterwards, if you're not sure what to do (and your dad is sitting in the car by the curb), just tell her you had a really nice time, that you like her and would like to see her again, and touch her shoulder and walk away. Don't just stand there, dissolving into a pool of *first kiss anxiety*. It's Ok to just say something positive and complimentary, and touch her shoulder and walk away.

Make sure you IM or otherwise contact her within 24 hours, too.

Have fun, girls are great, they're not at all scary.

[silentc0re]

Awwwwww.......a first date, good for you! And good for you for being a little anxious, it shows you want it to work and that you're willing to put the effort in!

First off, relax. She accepted, she likes you! The hard part is over.

First dates are less scary if you have more time with them BEFORE the big day, it gets you both a bit more familiar with eachother. So, you can chat/IM/phone, using the plan making as the 'excuse'. Have a newspaper in front of you and talk with her about which movies are out there, and jointly make a decision. (Actually, let her make the decision unless you've seen it). I agree that in the absence of some statement form her, expect it to be just the 2 of you and leave it at that.

Then, discuss transportation, and unless you can hoof it, mention that your folks will do the driving.

In the movie, make sure you pay for both of you, get ONE popcorn bucket, preferably large enough so you both get enough. Sharing popcorn is a way of being just a bit closer, it sort of reinforces it's a date. Seperate sodas, however.

In the movie, plan on NOT touching her for the first date. That way, there won't be this pressure to do so, or to figure out if you should. Typically, most guys 'know' when it's OK to hold hands or the *Yawn and stretch around the shoulder* routine. Typically, she'll move into you, she'll lean towards you or otherwise make it really obvious she's ok with this. In the absence of those signals, just enjoy eachother. Remember to make lots of eye contact and smile at her a lot.

When you walk her to the door afterwards, if you're not sure what to do (and your dad is sitting in the car by the curb), just tell her you had a really nice time, that you like her and would like to see her again, and touch her shoulder and walk away. Don't just stand there, dissolving into a pool of *first kiss anxiety*. It's Ok to just say something positive and complimentary, and touch her shoulder and walk away.

Make sure you IM or otherwise contact her within 24 hours, too.

Have fun, girls are great, they're not at all scary.


what do you mean walk away ?
If her ride didnt drive up even i just go away get in the car with my dad and drive away?

[Fiending_the_freedom]

NOTE!
hold her hand!
YOU DO IT.
most girls want the guy to make the first move.
trust me.

[silentc0re]

NOTE!
hold her hand!
YOU DO IT.
most girls want the guy to make the first move.
trust me.

Erm.... like when or how should i do it?

[silentc0re]

Fuck she invited 2 of her freinds now what should i do?

[Medical Kid]

well it might not be as cool as you thought, no making out, but holding hands is acceptable, but dont put your arm around her, then her friends might be like WOOOOOOOOOOO with her, k after the movie ask her if she wants to do anything else sometime