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Willie Wonka
December 8th, 2008, 01:10 PM
Well im 13 turning 14 in jan, and my last girlfriend and I were very close, and and one time we were on the phone, and she asked me if I had ever had phone sex before, and I said no. So she is like, lets do it then. I was nervous but we had phone sex.
The next day she asked me for sex.. And I told her no, im not ready to have sex. She sounded kind of dissipointed. But I know im not ready to have sex. So a while later. She says she likes some other guy, and she dumped me. Now im depressed and stuff, but thats for another thread. But anyway.
I feel like she dosn't like me because she dosn't want her friends to laugh at her because I didn't want to have sex. She says she likes another guy. But I think that might have had something to do with it.

Did I do the right thing? I loved her so much, and I cant stop thinking about her, and I feel down all the time. I don't cut, thank god. But some times I feel like I need to. :(
I dont wanna talk to my firends about it. So I decided to come here. Since no one would laugh at me or anything.b

Stevo 69
December 8th, 2008, 01:40 PM
Ok firstly, you did the right thing, if you are not ready for sex then you shouldnt be pushed into changing your mind. I think that any girl should not presure you and should respect you.

I can't see why people would laugh at you for not having sex, people are different you don't have to have sex at all, it's a choice you make in life, probably one of the important choices.

Sapphire
December 8th, 2008, 03:39 PM
Yes, you did do the right thing.
I know that you loved her, but it sounds as if she is just after one thing and so she really isn't worth the effort.

Axle
December 10th, 2008, 02:43 PM
You did the right thing dude.She is probably a slut(Sorry if it's not allowed.)

nachtspiegel
December 10th, 2008, 05:18 PM
You did the right thing, and you'll be glad for the decision you made. You'll find a girl that prefers a guy without an extensive track record, and the two of you will be able to have something truly special because of it.

:)

Nihilus
December 10th, 2008, 06:37 PM
Tell her how you feel. It is wrong for someone to break up with someone just because they won't have sex. I am sorry that happened to you.

Josh96
June 22nd, 2011, 11:52 PM
yes you did the right thing. if u were not ready to have sex than she should of understood and respected ur decision.

Donkey
June 23rd, 2011, 01:41 AM
Please don't bump old threads. :locked: