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wentybabes
December 5th, 2008, 07:37 PM
Would you ever go out with a girl who was smarter than you?
Like, a lot smarter?
If no, why?
Thankss :D
xx.
curiousteen
December 5th, 2008, 08:03 PM
idk i have gone out wit smarter girls and some who werent.
Oblivion
December 5th, 2008, 08:04 PM
No, at least not now,
Because [not bragging lol] I know I'm smarter or as smart as every girl at my school
Lola4563
December 5th, 2008, 09:11 PM
If you really like each other, I doubt intelligence matters.
jjmcray
December 5th, 2008, 10:40 PM
Yes, in fact I would prefer it. Because I don't want a girl who would only go out with me just to copy off my homework every day.
ThatCanadianGuy
December 5th, 2008, 10:41 PM
Would you ever go out with a girl who was smarter than you?
Like, a lot smarter?
If no, why?
Thankss :D
xx.
What? There are SMART girls?!?!?!! :P
JUST KIDDING!!!
I really like smart girls; it wouldn't matter how good looking a girl was if she was really stupid... I just can't stand that. If for some reason I met a girl that was LITERALLY a super-genius and SHE wanted to go out with me too... then of course I'd do it! I wouldn't feel inferior or anything.
For me I HAVE to find a girlfriend that is at least on equal terms with me in terms of intelligence. That doesn't mean book smarts (as much as I am that kind of person) but just someone you can carry on an actually intelligent conversation with is something I would need.
dmeek7
December 5th, 2008, 11:04 PM
i agree with cobalt...same with me...im what you would call..."super smart"...and evry1 (by evry1 i mean guys) make fun of me for it the girls know that its an attractive trait..........i hate stupid people.....not like mental people...like people who act stupid on purpose to get attention......and i love smart girls..thats one of the first traits i look for in a mate and you wouldnt catch me with one of those petty little girls who dont know what their own hand looks like b/c they stare at boys non-stop....dont get me wrong...i love it when girls look at me but when they dont even know the capitol of the u.s. then there tooooooo dumb
Mzor203
December 5th, 2008, 11:19 PM
i agree with cobalt...same with me...im what you would call..."super smart"...and evry1 (by evry1 i mean guys) make fun of me for it the girls know that its an attractive trait..........i hate stupid people.....not like mental people...like people who act stupid on purpose to get attention......and i love smart girls..thats one of the first traits i look for in a mate and you wouldnt catch me with one of those petty little girls who dont know what their own hand looks like b/c they stare at boys non-stop....dont get me wrong...i love it when girls look at me but when they dont even know the capitol of the u.s. then there tooooooo dumb
Just pointing out that "Super smart" people usually capitalize things. (jk jk)
@The OP: Basically in the same boat as Nick (Cobalt) here, but I wouldn't really mind if they were smarter than me. Though 'smarter' is a very broad term. I would most likely know a lot more about meteorology than the very very very vast majority of kids. So, even if they were 'smarter' than me on the whole, I'd probably be smarter than them in areas such meteorology, random computery things, plus any other things that I had just happened to learn.
And this isn't something you can really look at a report card over all and say "This person is smarter". Different schools, different teachers, lots of things play a factor in things like this. When I was in a public school, I had the highest marks out of everyone in the school, by far, but that wasn't necessarily because I was smart, it was because everyone else was (to put it bluntly) dumb.
The point of all this is, you should never look at someone's 'smartness'. If a guy wouldn't go out with someone just because they were smarter than themselves, then they have problems, and they wouldn't be someone you'd want to go out with anyway.
In conclusion, there really isn't such a thing as being 'smarter' than someone else. It's really all dependant on how much you've learned, where you've learned it from, etc. So yes, I would definitely go out with a girl who was 'smarter' than me. I love intelligent conversation.
Nihilus
December 6th, 2008, 02:20 PM
Sure. It would give me a motive to work harder to keep up with her. I'm really smart so....
Underground_Network
December 6th, 2008, 02:34 PM
Not to be too picky or anything, but I don't know that I would want to date a girl with a superior intellect. I would much prefer to date someone as smart as me or someone who's a little bit "dumber". I don't really want to date anyone that falls on the either far side of the spectrum (i.e. I wouldn't want to date someone that comes across as really dumb/ignorant but I wouldn't want to date the female equivalent of Albert Einstein either). Maybe a girl who was a little bit smarter than me would be okay, but most of the girls I've crushed on haven't been quite as bright as me, at least not grade wise... And talking to some of them, its apparent they're definitely not on the same level as me intelligence wise... But that's only some of them... I do know some girls who are quite smart (possibly smarter than me) that I also like at least a little bit, so I don't really know. I'm not sure intelligence would be that important to me in a relationship, other than that I would ALMOST never date a super genius or someone really, REALLY dumb.
Requin
December 6th, 2008, 02:47 PM
Hmmmm, I'm not sure, i'd only be able to have an opinion on this when I have gone out with someone who is smarter than me.
I'd prefer someone who is about on the same level as me in intellect. Don't know why. Just would.
Gumleaf
December 6th, 2008, 03:23 PM
actually i like smart girls. all girlfriends i have had/have were smart in their own way. their smartness doesn't bother me too much. whats important to me is that we have a connection and that at the time of dating i really like them. so to answer the question, yes i would date a smart girl.
Cindex
December 6th, 2008, 04:14 PM
I won't date a girl who isn't smart.
Granted, I don't think I've ever dated a girl who's actually smarter than me. Sure they beat me in some areas, but all over book smarts I've got them all.
Not many "street-smart" girls around here! XD
Jean Poutine
December 7th, 2008, 08:25 PM
I like intelligent conversation, but I'm so lonely I'd settle for just average.
whiterecyclables94
December 9th, 2008, 03:34 AM
I would go out with someone that was smarter than me because I like to surround myself with intelligent people and i believe that if a girlfriend was smarter than me she could teach me a thing or 2 and i could teach her a thing or 2 ;)
eikookmi
December 9th, 2008, 04:26 AM
This can be a question for girls too!
I would go out with a girl smarter than me because i wouldn't care about that.
I wouldnt feel inferior or anything like that, maybe she could fix me D:
Galinofied
December 9th, 2008, 06:12 AM
i caould care less if she was smarter then me unless she tried to maek her self feel superior by putting me down
eikookmi
December 9th, 2008, 06:17 AM
i caould care less if she was smarter then me unless she tried to maek her self feel superior by putting me down
oh i didn't think of that. true. i dont need someone putting me down even more
Cindex
December 9th, 2008, 11:53 AM
Now that I think of it, my last girlfriend was smarter than me in school sort of...
I'm a sophomore, and she was a junior. We both had Chemistry and Adv. Algebra, but she had a college class or two since she was old enough. She tried harder, but she also knew a lot more than I did.
She didn't figure stuff out quite so quick though..... She did catch up on our dirty jokes after a wihle though. Just suggestive themes I guess.
Why would you date someone that puts you down in the first place?
byee
December 9th, 2008, 11:53 AM
Smarter than me?! C'mon.
The answer, of course, is yes I would (and do!). Who would want to go out with someone LESS than themselves? It's much more enjoyable to go out with someone truly interesting than to double down to protect a fragile ego.
Requin
December 9th, 2008, 12:00 PM
Ahh true that. But I wouldn't date someone who was really dumb. But then again why would they want to go out with me in the first place??
Removed
December 10th, 2008, 05:12 PM
Of course i would go out i mean why not ?
Camazotz
December 12th, 2008, 07:41 PM
I would love it if a girl was smarter than me. Unfortunately, it's never happened. :P Just kidding. I would enjoy her being smarter because I would have more compliments for her.
Archer600
December 12th, 2008, 10:10 PM
I don't really care unless the girl calls me dumb
sploshblosh
December 13th, 2008, 02:00 AM
if she was hot why the hell not
thiscityisdead
December 31st, 2008, 04:28 AM
personally im not "highest in GPA" percentile or anything...BELIEVE YOU ME but i wouldnt mind goin out with someone thats smarter then me...id prolly like it actually cuz she can teach me somethin i dont know...
weredemon
January 1st, 2009, 03:46 AM
No, at least not now,
Because [not bragging lol] I know I'm smarter or as smart as every girl at my school
Me too man:cool:
Dominoes
January 1st, 2009, 09:57 PM
Not to smart but not to dumb. I don't want to date a "know-it-all".
Dragonite
January 2nd, 2009, 01:04 PM
Yea it really doesn't mAtter how smart she is
Zan0ra
January 2nd, 2009, 01:59 PM
To have someone smart around can be very helpful + female is possibly better then male since they get less stressed about certain situations.
Requin
January 2nd, 2009, 02:05 PM
Your saying females don't get stressed??
Oh they do believe me, very stressed sometimes. But the female species are not all like that of course...:-)
phillip.meow
January 3rd, 2009, 11:50 PM
yah i would
Seth48
January 4th, 2009, 12:42 AM
Omg Right Now im Goin Out With a Girl Who Can.... Lets see....
Scholars Bowl
Guitar
Piano
Awesome MS Paint Skills
Hmmm Seems Like shes Smarter than me considering i can't do ANY of those things =P
john2
July 12th, 2012, 11:23 AM
i woundnt mind going out with a smart girl basically because girls in my school are smarter than me
OrKing
July 12th, 2012, 11:38 AM
I'm not too bright myself; don't get me wrong, I'm not too dumb or overly ignorant, I just didn't really try at all during my first ten years in the wonderful British education system, and obviously, it kind of affected my smarts in certain aspects. I do, however, really like intelligent girls; and not just the book smart ones either. If she was socially/emotionally intelligent that's just as good in my opinion, if not better than simply being a genius. For example, some people can be smart as hell intellectually, but dumb as fuck when it comes to people, or the opposite, like myself the majority of the time. So basically, yes; I most definitely would.
IMO; Nerds are awesome, especially female nerds.
sms22
July 12th, 2012, 11:57 AM
I actually like smart girls. Most of the time my gf is smarter than me so, yeah.
ImCoolBeans
July 12th, 2012, 11:59 AM
Please don't bump old threads :locked:
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