Confusion need advice

[sunshine08]

Im 19 i thought i was heterosexual for all my life till i meet this girl.... we really hit it off and been together but we are both so confused cause we were both "straight" before we met i dont know what to think of this situation.... oh we are both pastor kids as well.... can anyone give me some help advice on this situation....

more background she is 17 we been talking like this for about a month but been best friends for a long time

Please help!!!!!

[Donkey]

If you like guys and guys only, you're straight.
Both guys and girls, you're bisexual.
If you like girls and girls only, you're homosexual [lesbian].

If you like guys you still might be straight - many girls have 'flings' with other girls, the same with guys, and they turn out to be perfectly straight.

However, if you are attracted to other girls and not guys then you may be lesbian.

As for bisexual, that's if you like both as a usual thing.

[just-me]

just because u have thought ur straight doesnt mean you are, and just because you are attracted to her doesnt mean your a lesbian.
i say if it feels right, go with your heart try it out and go from there. you could just be curious but the only way to find out is to try.
so go for it but be willing to stop if it feels wrong.

[eikookmi]

Well you said you're a pastor child so you've probably been raised thinking that you could only be with a guy. You probably have never questioned or considered ebing with a girl before? Like just-me said, you should just go with whatever feels right. So if you think being in a relationship with her feels right, you should just go for it.