Question for girls

[redsoxboy]

girls, what do you like in guys? What makes you interested in them? What personalities do you look for? What qualities do you look for? I am trying to get a girl to like me, and I would appreciate all of your help! Thank you!

[BeautifulSilence]

From General Puberty to Relationships and Dating.

[LoneWanderer]

well, im not a girl, so sorry, but ive asked this type of question before and it seems that all girls like different qualities in guys, its like ice cream, theres not just one flavour thats everybodies favourite, but id suggest finding a girl, who you can really relate to and just build up from there, but then again it depends what kind of relationship your looking for.

[Zephyr]

I like a guy who can be himself around me.
That's the first thing that I look for.
Don't try to mold yourself to fit her,
Because in the end that's never good.
She has to like you for you.

[redsoxboy]

Thank you!! How do you think I should go about trying to get a relationship with her?

[AutumnDae]

Well, are you friends now? If not, get to be her friend. Flirt with her a little. Don't be ALL over her, that is a bit creepy. But have a real conversation with her. Talk to her. Pay attention.

If she seems to like you, ask her out.

[dmeek7]

yeah..i have the same problem dude....im a guy too and i find it helpfull to be yourself...call her and talk to her once in a while(not like 5 times a day) but maybe like 1 time every other day....just to get her attention...be mysterious but be yourself...(if thats possible).. like autumn said...flirt a little...dont be mean and do a little kid flirt(poking, hair pulling, name calling) but be subtle... show her you kinda like her but not obsessed....um....i cant really think of anything else right now...any1 else have anything to add?

[staying_alive]

haha it seems that many guys are going around with this problem. dude you just gotta be yourself and see how your friendship goes, and then move into a relationship if it seems comfortable. if it doesn't, DONT go for it, because when a friend turns you down it usually ends badly. Flirt with her when possible, but be yourself! Also, don't act obsessed, it can be a big turnoff.

[Polly16]

Hey!!
My advice is dont be stupid and call her names, and dont get all your mates to make fun of her, coz that is really childish
I like guys that are genuine, and can be relaxed around you. Get to know her, give her lots of hugs, girls like that!

[cloudybliss]

Be confident, but not cocky....cockiness is a HUGE turnoff. Also, girls LOVE gentleman:) Hold open doors for her. And like someone else said, act natural , not overly obsessive. Let her initiate the conversation sometimes. OH. and be a good listener and act like you truly care about what she's saying:) Hope I helped.

[FeelMyArmz]

I'm not a girl. But personally, I'm 17..but I've honestly found the love of my life. I'm sure you hear that a lot but I'm positive. You can't really look for love, it randomly hits you when you least expect it. Just talk to her a bit, relationships grow with time, and usually if a girl likes you they will make it quite obvious, even if they play hard to get...its very obvious. Just try to be yourself and if she doesnt like you, it will hurt...but keep pushing. You'll find the right one when you least expect it.

[Dominoes]

I have heard nice eyes and hair are major factors. There has to be a physical attraction though, otherwise the relationship just won't last. They love to feel needed, but don't overdo it. That is just my 2 cents.