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[clueless]

I don't know why I cut exactly, I just do it when I'm really depressed. It used to help, but now I just feel worse afterward. I can't stop though. Recently I admitted to my girlfriend about it, and she's really upset about it. She isn't mad at me, but she says she feels depressed about it. I told her I would try to stop. I don't know if I can do it though. I just admitted it yesterday, and showed her my cuts (well she kinda pulled up my sleeves without asking). She has a few friends who cut too, but she said that I freaked her about because I had way more cuts than them. It sounds kind of sick, but I guess you could say I prefer quantity over quality because I don't cut extremely deep. Anyway, I am trying to stop really hard just for her. I don't know what to say to her anymore though.

I don't really know what I am asking, I guess I just want advice.

[Sunshine Girl]

it will probley take time.
ask her for support.. and hope for the best :]
stay strongg.

[BlackenedSilver]

I know how you feel. I told my boyfriend a while ago and he said it makes him feel worthless because he knows theres almost nothing he can do alone to help me.
There isnt really a best thing to do here, Just make her feel like you do care and try to stop, for her.
Hope everythings ok. feel free to contact me if you need anything at all.

[Atonement]

Well I have no advice because no question was posed. But, you came to the right place and just rely on those who care for you. The people that care will really come through for you if you ask it from them.

Feel free to PM me anytime you want or MSN whatev. I hope things go well for you.