Im unsure.

[diseased.mind]

Hi. Um. Im bi i think. but im not entirely sure how to tell. i dont want to sound like a total idiot but i really dont. i mean i like both! what can i do. and i want to date a girl(justt to see how much i like them) but im not sure how to tell if shes bi too. I dont know what to do. HELP!!!!

[Loner Girl6]

Umh in my social circle all my friends have been completely open with there sexuality....Atleast the girls have.Usually I just go out and ask them how they feel about gay people in general.This may mess up relationships with friends though,not because they'll suspect anything(if they ask why your asking say someone you know just came out or any other lie),but because you might look at them differently if you find out they hate gay people.It totally changed the way I looked at some people when they said they hated gay people.Anyways if best to just ask a general question to see how people you know feel about gay people.If they're okay with I would just ask them about their sexual orientation.I'm a super blunt person though so I don't know if you'd be comfortable with that.

[Mr. Smithers]

Just talk to her. Say, "Between us girls, how do you feel about liking another girl." From what her answer would be, maybe that would help you. You are going to have the figure out the answer yourself. I'm saying that because it won't be hard. You just have to find the right words to say.

Its also alright to be bi-sexual. Whatever you are comfortable with. If you want to date both sexes, then fine you can. You might like girls at one time then guys the next. You can't control what you're attracted to.