View Full Version : What would you say...
george
November 30th, 2008, 02:26 AM
...if one of your friends asked if you were gay or bi?
Its mainly for LGBT VTers :) Sorry straight guys and girls :whoops:
Oblivion
November 30th, 2008, 02:37 AM
I know you said its mainly for LGBT, but it would be pretty awkward for straight VTers also :P
Soo...
I would probably just say No, then kind of... Drift away to avoid awkwardness.
Then next time i saw them i would act like it didnt happen
mr.sexy_bomb
November 30th, 2008, 03:14 AM
i would say "yeah why"
"i am bi" then just smile at them and then turn my head and look at something nice and make a comment about it
is always good that they know you are confident about your sexuality and that does not change who you are, cuz if they see you are scare about your sexuality then they will talk shit to you cuz they think you are afraid of them so yeah, my friends know just cuz i am bi does not mean i cant beat their ass
i hope this helps :)
The Resurrected One
November 30th, 2008, 03:22 AM
I'd say "Why?"
Hear their reason.
If it makes me feel good enough, I'll say "Yes".
Trickster
November 30th, 2008, 11:54 AM
I'd say "yup". Then just say why they ask. If they say how long ill say for awhile cuz it true and plus if i say that it means ive been the same and i didnt change at all. So they dont gotta worry about me changing.
Mr. Smithers
December 1st, 2008, 06:09 AM
"Do People In Hell want Ice Water."
eikookmi
December 1st, 2008, 11:27 AM
I might say "why" because i'd be curious why they were asking.
But i would definitely tell them i'm bi. I have no problem telling them.
Φρανκομβριτ
December 1st, 2008, 11:29 AM
No one would ask because everyone knows I am
Requin
December 1st, 2008, 11:30 AM
I'd say no and say that I don't care.
Because I couldn't....
then they've got nothing to play on so it would be a dead conversation, works every time. :-)
Θάνατος
December 1st, 2008, 11:40 AM
I'd say "Why?"
Hear their reason.
If it makes me feel good enough, I'll say "Yes".
I agree with you Johnny.
I came out last winter and I wish that I would not have done that. Most of my friends treat me like shit now.
I guess I would really want o know why they are asking before I answer them or not.
Φρανκομβριτ
December 1st, 2008, 12:27 PM
I agree with you Johnny.
I came out last winter and I wish that I would not have done that. Most of my friends treat me like shit now.
I guess I would really want o know why they are asking before I answer them or not.
well, if they treat you like shit, they're not true friends, are they?
Atonement
December 1st, 2008, 01:04 PM
well, if they treat you like shit, they're not true friends, are they?
Ahmen.
I love it when people ask me if I am gay and I say no. I don't define myself gay, straight, bi, mono, omni, whatever sexual, but I define myself as a human. Why the hell does sexuality matter? Or my favorite question is...
What is your sexuality?
Human.
Blueberryz
December 1st, 2008, 04:04 PM
i usually say "thats for me to know and for you to find out when i feel like telling you"
TurboDieselBandit
December 2nd, 2008, 05:42 PM
I would say im bi or very curious and see how they react. Hopefuly they will be curious too.
Loner Girl6
December 3rd, 2008, 07:58 PM
I don't think I've ever actually been asked,alot of people just assume I'm gay cuz I'm kinda butch.But if they did ask and I knew they weren't messing wiht me I'd probably say "only half."
ShatteredWings
December 3rd, 2008, 08:11 PM
Ha
Well.. that depends on who's asking.
Anyone close to me knows.
If it's a random person, i tell 'em to fuck off
If it's like.. someone i know and we could be friends.. well it depends on how well i know how'd they take it (ie ; are they a gossip?)
curiousteen
December 3rd, 2008, 08:31 PM
well id say no cause most of my friends r str8 but i can tell some of my friends cause i trust them more but i dont really have the courage.
Zan0ra
December 6th, 2008, 03:57 PM
If I get confident enough
"yup" and if they ask why I would say "I cant controll my feelings"
DarkWingedAngel
December 6th, 2008, 04:39 PM
it depends
if i know they won't say anything to anyone else then i might tell them
but usually i say "thats for me to know and for you to find out"
ThePhantom
December 6th, 2008, 09:30 PM
At this point in my life when it comes to my sexuality, I would tell them I'm gay and discuss it with them.
If you have not come out and they ask you, I would question why they want to know, and what difference it would make. It is an attribute, like hair color.
Vermillion
December 8th, 2008, 01:49 AM
I'd say "Why?"
Hear their reason.
If it makes me feel good enough, I'll say "Yes".
Same. Unless I know the person is an utter douche, then I'd just calmy reply "No you *bleep*ing twat, take you and your orange faced girl friend somewhere and shoot yourself in a ditch, and rot. Have a nice day! =D"
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