can u get pregnant from...

[sandi]

one night wen it was raining and thundering out side, my 11 year old brother got scared. so, by moms request, he slept with me.


that night i had a dream i got 'intimite' with a guy i really like, wen i woke up in the morning my brother was inside me! i havnt had my period in three months! im i pregnant???

[Oblivion]

When you woke up, your brother was having sex with you?
Yes, you definitely could get pregnant, but the only way to know for sure is going to your doctor and getting checked out

[sandi]

....really???


hes only 11

[Oblivion]

Its still possible for him to have released semen into you


Again though, you should really at least get a pregnancy test,
Or go to a doctor

[sandi]

i did, the week after it happened, the results r uncunclusive.


is ther any thing i can do???



pleese hep!

[BeautifulSilence]

Did this happen 3 months ago? If so, a pregnancy test would be much more clearer now. The best thing to do is get checked by a doctor, they'll know for sure.

How old are you?

You could be pregnant... but depending on your age and how long you've been having periods, it might just be that they haven't regulated yet.

Good luck.

[sandi]

im 14 but i have precoasios puberty, ive had periods contantly 4 a year now, i took ur advice..went out bot sme prego sticks.... ill be back in an hour...

[sandi]

kk, i got it bck....it says im pregnent! PLEESE HEP ME U GUYS! IVE NEVER HAD A BOYFREND, SO IT MUST BE TRUE!


:eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:


PLEESE HELP!

[Oblivion]

Well we can't really help you other than give you support and ideas

Talk to your doctor and parents about what you can do about it
Whether you will raise the baby, put it up for adoption, etc.
And what you will do about the problem concerning having a baby with a family member

[Underground_Network]

I really, really doubt this story... But if it's true, there's not much you can do. I guess you could get your brother in trouble, but whatever, what's done is done, what he did was wrong, what's happened is f-ed up, but you have to deal with the consequences... And pregnancy tests aren't fool-proof, there's no guarantee that you're actually pregnant yet... They're usually pretty accurate, but I would take it a couple more times just to make sure... :/

No offense, but I still think you're a troll..

[sandi]

pleese beleive me! i cant go to my parents, ill die of embarassment, anywas no one seems to notice...
:(

[BeautifulSilence]

You have options. Bare in mind that this is technically incest and statutory rape on your part. And there's a higher risk of the baby being born with health problems.

The easiest and most obvious is an abortion, but it may be against your religion or beliefs.

You could go through with the pregnancy and put it up for adoption.

You could keep the baby and raise it, keeping the father anonymous.
- You need support from family because babies are hard work.

You could keep the baby and raise it with your brother as the father, but that leads to all sorts problems.

You may want to explain to your mother what happened (it seems like it goes back to her decision) and ask for her help and support.

It's completely your choice...

[sandi]

i dont no.... how do i get an abortion ,and wen is it to late 2 get 1???

[BeautifulSilence]

There are abortion clinics and (I think) G.U.M Health clinics also offer them.

You would be best going to a family planning service and they'll tell you exactly what you need to know.

I think it's 25 weeks at the very latest... But I'm not sure.

[sandi]

so its been 12 alredy! pleese help me anyway further! i looked in the fon book and the neerest 1 is 23 miles away! i cant drive myself there either! pleese help me! i cant bear the pressure of a child at 14yrs!!!

[BeautifulSilence]

I'm sorry, there's nothing else I can help you with. You're on your own at this point.

Could you possibly get a friend's parent to take you? Or public transport, like a bus or even a taxi / cab?

[sandi]

all my frends hate me! :eek: i tod them over the fone 10 mins ago and ther all made 4 not telling this to them sooner!


my life is falling apart!:(

pleese help me u guys, is thee a hotline 4 this kinda stuff???:confused:

[Ashleigh_Jack]

have u like told your mum lol cant u get advise from her ?

[Rutherford The Brave]

Look, as much as we would love to help you. Your fate rests in your hands, I really have a hard time believing you given the circumstances. Still, we can't have your abortion for you, once that's said and done with. Tell your parent's, embarrassment shouldn't be an issue, one because you were asleep, and two because he raped you.

[pistonfan28]

You said he was 11 years old. I wonder if he could even produce semen?
Besides there would be major complications. Genetics.

Good Luck.

[Natoja12]

ok dont panic, as hard as it is to go to ur mom i no you have to do it. you will end up going to her within a week or so i no it. Ive had simular problems like this not wanting to tell my mom. I really do not get along good with her so i thought it would be awkward but she was ok to talk to about issues.

Call the kids help phone...theyll no what to do about it. dnot give out ur number address city or anything if you want to keep it annoymonous.

[LeRoy_Fan]

If you're story is true, (which personally I don't think we are hearing the full story), just tell your parents. In most states, if you do get an abortion you'll have to get their consent, and if you decide to keep the kid (adoption, etc.) you'll start showing signs of pregnancy, so they'll find out anyways.

Just tell em.

[sam94]

wat hav u decided 2 do

[please help me 69]

ask him about it, ask your brother if he can produce semen, and if he says idk, say you are going to have to mastrbate

if worse comes to worse, about that, you may have to masturbate him, to see

~ Plese use the edit button in future. Laura

[Rutherford The Brave]

ask him about it, ask your brother if he can produce semen, and if he says idk, say you are going to have to mastrbate

if worse comes to worse, about that, you may have to masturbate him, to see

No, you never solve an issue with an issue. If she is pregnant then from conclusion you can say he can create sperm. There is nothing left for use to do, she has to help herself, and certainly tugging on her brother's penis to he ejaculates will be counter-productive to the issue at hand.

[hExod]

Corrupted society you're living in, wow you're still young and yet.. WOW, is this the full story as far as you can concur with? Or is there a hidden secret, as mentioned above, we can't help you, you're gonna have to help yourself, tell your parents, trust me they will help, and your brother will be in big trouble.

[Raynes]

I think you're a troll as well, anyone who gets screwed by their 11 year old brother in their sleep would tell their parents. If this story is true, then grow up and tell your parents, because your brother is a sick human being and really needs help. If you are telling the truth.

...I wish you the best.....

[MisterAndrews]

I think you're a troll as well, anyone who gets screwed by their 11 year old brother in their sleep would tell their parents. If this story is true, then grow up and tell your parents, because your brother is a sick human being and really needs help. If you are telling the truth.

...I wish you the best.....

You know for someone who's new you arent scared of hurting people are you raynes? 'Growing up' is not her problem. She is distressed clearly and you need to grow up if you think those comments help the thread.

Anyway, I think we have (most of us) decided that you need to bring this up with a parent. DO NOT masterbate with him... that will make it worse. Tell your mam and she will sort it. I really dont think there is anything else we can do for you here. It's up to you.

Good luck :-)

[The Air Guitar Man13]

I think iamvampire is right about this issue. you should tell yourr parents, i think they can do alot more than a bunch of teenagers on a website who no as much about pregnancy as you. (no offence everybody)

[BeautifulSilence]

I'm locking this thread because:

1) The OP hasn't posted in here since November 28th, 07:30 PM and was last on VT an hour after that.

2) I think we've all helped as much as we possibly can.

AND

3) The possibility of this situation is being doubted which is resulting in a potential disturbance.