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MasterCujo
December 2nd, 2005, 08:50 PM
Well, theres this girl I really like and weve been friends for a long time (maybe u read one of my other posts, where I posted the whole story... Oh, right. U don't care...) and weve always been able to talk a lot to each other over the years, but ever since Iv been tryn to get close to her, it seems there has been nutn to tlk about. Its like b4 there was always a topic to talk about between classes ( We're in every single class together, and I still haven't asked her out. I am such a... not gunna say that in the forums.) but now, its like all topics of interest have dropped of the face of the earth. We walk together and stuff, but now its kinda dull. I don't know if she still just considers us "just friends" but its been kinda boring now. I used to always have somthing to say, and she would have something to say back, but now there is nothing to say. Am I just nervouse? I don't think so cause when the very rare occasion of something to talk about comes around, we have long, interesting conversations about it, and I'm never nervouse. Could I get some advice on that?
Also, its like I can't touch her. This time I'm defonitely nervous. Everytime were close its like a bomb full of compressed buterflies goes off in my stomach, and I kinda tense up. I don't mean, like, I dunno, wantin to pinchin her but or doin any flirty thing like that(althought sometimes I wish I had the coarage to...), but just bein close gets me all worked up inside. I think its cause I have ZERE expirience with girls and having girlfriends, but I wish I could get over it. Can I get some advice on that to?

sry for ramblin, but I have a lot on my mind... hope I didn't bore u.

Englishkid
December 4th, 2005, 06:18 PM
hehe i think your just nervous. I have the same thing i can talk to any person and make convosation but when it comes to the girl i fancy all convosation just drops out my head and we end up having a few minute convosation realy anoying :x

hollagoota
December 4th, 2005, 10:00 PM
this was like me a few years ago....heres what i sugguest, pretend its not hte girl u like and try to start a conversation like that

MasterCujo
December 5th, 2005, 10:21 PM
Yea, I'll try that. I had a little luck with talkin today, but not much. I'll post on my success later.

MasterCujo
December 6th, 2005, 09:32 PM
OMG!!! I cant tlk for crap. Can someone give me some conversation starters?(Not pickup lines, just conversation starters besides "Nice weather we're having" or sumthin dum like that.) I want to talk to her SOOOO badly, and I am being deprived of her, but I have nutin to tlk about!!!! Grrr+Arrg=UGH

December 6th, 2005, 09:48 PM
yeah just like start a convo..it'l work

MasterCujo
December 6th, 2005, 10:25 PM
But I'm askin on how to get a conversation started. I sometimes have sumthin to tlk bout, and I when I do, we have good conversations, but I usually never do. I'm askin for advice on how to maybe catch her interest w/ a topic or how to start one.