If you had a son..would you teach him to?

[Lifepulses]

Teach him to masturbate? or should you let him know by himself?

Also how to approach your child about puberty( growth, masturbation, sex, deoderant etc.)

[MisterAndrews]

I wouldnt teach him to masterbate... i think thats a but personal to talk about with your dad of all people. I wouldnt talk about how to have sex unless he asked me, however i would probably have the talk about growth and development and ESPECIALLY deoderant when he was about 10 (School Y6) becuase i think its VITAL that they find out about that stuff when they start to change.

[Atonement]

I would talk about how to take care of yourself. I would want my son to be open and not hesitate to come to me if he needed something or information. I would for sure teach him about puberty, hygenie, deodorant, shaving, whatever. As for sex, I would have a talk, how to be safe. And for masturbation, I'm sure he'll figure that out on his own.

[Neverender]

Teach him to masturbate? or should you let him know by himself?

Also how to approach your child about puberty( growth, masturbation, sex, deoderant etc.)

i wouldn't. i know thats the last thing i would talk to my dad about; and i wouldn't want to do anything like that. but just imagine now, you had a kid and you taught him to masturbate. then in some conversation with his friends about how they discovered masturbation, he (who may be naive and not know how wierd this is) then says "my dad showed me.." well holy smoldering arseholes his life'd be over in a flash; and everything would just collapse around him and lies and gossip spread like wildfire..

ruin his life.



but i would teach him about puberty and hygene, etc.

safe sex talk

you know, let him be open.

[Aves]

I wouldn't tell him how to j/o, but about the other stuff ONCE, and only ONCE.

[Rutherford The Brave]

Sure, I'd warn him about sex, how to shave stuff like that. But only if the oppertunity presents itself. Also I wouldn't teach him how to Jack off, not only is that extremely uncomfortable, but what if he hated me. He could tell you know.

[iJack]

I would talk about how to take care of yourself. I would want my son to be open and not hesitate to come to me if he needed something or information. I would for sure teach him about puberty, hygenie, deodorant, shaving, whatever. As for sex, I would have a talk, how to be safe. And for masturbation, I'm sure he'll figure that out on his own.

Same here.
I would want my son to be able to ask me anything he needs.

[TAC1]

I wouldn't teach my son- I know he'll figure it out on his own- besides masturbation is a private thing.

[charlie w]

I would definitly not show or teach my son how to masturbate, but i would be very open to him especially about hygine.

[zoig]

I think 90% of guys tend to work out wanking on their own...
Plus these days there's sights like jackinworld that help.

[Antares]

Do you wish your dad taught you how to masturbate? I am guessin' thats a no.
I wouldn't. Sure the standard sex talk but it ends there. Curiousity will take over.

[marktheman]

I learned by myself so I would probably let him learn too. But my younger brother has been asking a lot of questions lately and I've sort of been teaching him a little, so it might depend on how that turns out.

[teenboy93]

i think it is better for him to find out on his own. that is a personal preference.

[Patchy]

It's part of being a teenager, discovering how to pleasure yourself.

I might tell him about sex like only do it if your ready use condoms etc.

[Sapphire]

Surely it wouldn't be appropriate for that to happen between a father and son...

[Trickster]

no, it would extremlly unconfortable for the child. Think if your dad showed you how, what the best way, where to touch, what to think and what to watch. Creeps me out it would creep them out so. I'd so they can find out for themselves or if they ask you can answer if they ask what is masturbation and how. You can say "It pleasuring yourself and find out on your own". =)

[staying_alive]

i would NOT teach him to masturbate. that would be SO awkward. however, unlike my own father, i want to have an active role in my son's life and teach him about hygiene, shaving, puberty, etc. if my son was anything like me, i'd have to force it on him or he wouldn't ask questions at all.

[Jamesmmur]

I don't think i would teach him to masturbate unless he asked i mean im a pretty chill person but i dont think id want my parents more likely my dad teaching me or talking to me about puberty unless i thought something was like seriously wrong with me or i was scared about something you know?

[theOperaGhost]

I would talk about how to take care of yourself. I would want my son to be open and not hesitate to come to me if he needed something or information. I would for sure teach him about puberty, hygenie, deodorant, shaving, whatever. As for sex, I would have a talk, how to be safe. And for masturbation, I'm sure he'll figure that out on his own.

Same here...that's a good answer.

[philip374374]

I whould ask him if he knew what it was when he as 13 and if he didnt id tell him not teach but tell

[L]

like everyone else i wouldent teach him how to j/o just all the basics.

[Archer600]

well i wouldnt teach my son to masterbate or anything else id just wait till he asked about that stuff if he askes at all and let him learn for himself

[Furn_93]

I never would.... its such an invasion of his privacy. If I found my son wanking I wouldn't be like 'oh good, you're doing it right, but why don't you try the ----- method'
I'd just be like ohhhh.... and close the door lol

But yeah i'd never 'teach' him. If he asked, then yeah i'd tell him about it (ie what you feel and stuff) but only if he asked, but never 'teach'.

[alsoknownas]

Id just say that whatever was happening to his body at the time was normal and he could ask any question at all and id answer it

[spongebob_squarepant]

i would not teach him but i wish my dad had thaugt me

[Silent_Zoma]

It would be kinda of fun if your dad taught you how to jackoff...

[radboi]

I would my dad and older bro taught me
set him down and give him the sex talk
and ask if he knows how to do it
if he does not show him
i did with my lil bro i showed read what i wrote
topic is Lil Bros

[iceyfresh]

Honostly i would not do that. It would be my children's desicion not mine and i would let them decide and learn how.

[Fusion]

I wouldn't i would let him figure it out for himself

[OhMightyLion]

I wouldn't teach him how to masturbate (Hey, it's his choic eif he wants to..) but if I ever find out he does indeed masturbate then I would approach him and tell him it normal, I used to do it (or still do), etc. etc. etc. I would probably buy him porn, idk. And condoms of course, I want him to be safe if he is sexually active. But yeah, I obviously will give him "The Talk" when he's ready for it and stuff

[dantay]

I wouldn't tell him how to masterbate! WHAT THE FREAKIN HELL! There are laws against that. Freak!

[Maverick]

OhMightyLion don't bump old threads please.

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Please don't bump old threads, this one is nearly a year old.
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Post-Script: Ant posted about it at the same time I did, I hate when that happens! xD