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just-me
November 27th, 2008, 04:44 PM
i really like this guy, like alot. and he likes me.
but in his greatness he doesnt want a relationship as he has split up with a longterm gf, and wants to respect her by not rushing into another relationship.
i think he likes me, we ring each other every night and talk for hours on end, we confide in each other, but in my pesimistic way i have doubts.
im kinda glad he doesnt want a relationship atm cos i dont think i want to either. but i still REALLY like him.
he always tells me though how he wants to have sex with me at my house party in a few weeks.
but i like him so much and know i wont be able to say no, i want him like nothin else, but although i have had like one night stands before its been with people i didnt really like, and so didnt mind, i wasnt emotionally attached, but if to him it means nothing, it would break my heart to be used by the one i like so much.

hmm what to do.

lilmisscurious17
November 27th, 2008, 05:00 PM
I think that u should tell him you really like him. but you want the sex to mean something or maybe tell him u don't want to do anything unless u know how he feels about u.

just-me
November 27th, 2008, 05:13 PM
he tells me he really likes me
but im just me, beth, and i always carry doubts and fears and worrys when it involves people i like :/