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[dtrain121]

well this girl and i like each other. i really liker her and when i do ask her to be my girlfriend i want it to be really special. i want to do something very cute. please give me any suggestions you may have.


thanks

[Ryandel]

Hmm, first of all let me say an early congrats. Now for you special date. What does she like to do? Think of things you could talk about. Note* there are some things which are taboo or just topics of no interest. Also, do you want romantic, fun or memorable or maybe even all three. You gotta consider all the things like what does she like to do.

[syd]

well this girl and i like each other. i really liker her and when i do ask her to be my girlfriend i want it to be really special. i want to do something very cute. please give me any suggestions you may have.


thanks

You never ask they'll just say no if you aren't far into it, you wait 'til after you've had sex or atleast kissed with your toungue a few times, then you suprise her at work with flowers. and then when you're at a party togethar and someone says hey are you boy friend and girlfriend say YES! really fast and if she says no, you walk away from her and you don't ever talk to her again.

Or you ask what kinda flowers does she like, and then get her some and go to her work and be liek hey wanna go to the movies? and if she says yeah, be liek i'll pick ypu up at nine, then like it dosn't matter if you do anything in there, wether you kiss or touch hands, just after the date be like so you wanna do this again? and if she says yeah then e like how about friday nigth, and then friday night you try to kiss her then you're probably her boyfriend.

[meaghanlovesu]

from a girls point talk to her about some thing you both like

[Ryandel]

You never ask they'll just say no if you aren't far into it, you wait 'til after you've had sex or atleast kissed with your toungue a few times, then you suprise her at work with flowers. and then when you're at a party togethar and someone says hey are you boy friend and girlfriend say YES! really fast and if she says no, you walk away from her and you don't ever talk to her again.


That's not really a great idea. It will make you look very impulsive and over your head. Not all relationships needs sex or sexual activities to be a real relationship. She may be also may not be ready for sex, And not talking to her for saying no at that party scenario will make you look desperate and a jerk to not consider her feelings. Maybe she's not ready to labeled as that yet. Also it's not a great mentality to have that set image that you're "dating". Best to do is to get each to know each other well on your date or prior to your date.

[syd]

That's not really a great idea. It will make you look very impulsive and over your head. Not all relationships needs sex or sexual activities to be a real relationship. She may be also may not be ready for sex, And not talking to her for saying no at that party scenario will make you look desperate and a jerk to not consider her feelings. Maybe she's not ready to labeled as that yet. Also it's not a great mentality to have that set image that you're "dating". Best to do is to get each to know each other well on your date or prior to your date.
I'm saying if you've kissed her numberous times and go to parties togethar, say yeah you're her boyfriend, she'll either be flattered or she'll be disgusted, and if she's disgusted, she's never going to want to be his GF, every girl that will be your girl knows it from the begining. end of story.

[zarri]

This one guy asked me out once, by writing a poem on several different notes, that pretty much asked me to be his girlfriend. Then, he gave each one in order to each of my teachers, to have THEM give them to me in class. It was uber adorable. :D

[Ryandel]

I'm saying if you've kissed her numberous times and go to parties togethar, say yeah you're her boyfriend, she'll either be flattered or she'll be disgusted, and if she's disgusted, she's never going to want to be his GF, every girl that will be your girl knows it from the begining. end of story.

Sorry but that's totally off. Ofcourse they'll be disgusted with you for assuming that and not consulting her that you guys are going out. Makes you look like a total jerk. Also in relationships things fluctuate they're not some happy love story where it all ended happily ever after. That may be your view on your how relationships should be. But he's asking of what to do special, he likes her and should just ask her out. Thinking negative like that will never get you anywhere in life or in a relationship. Wondering what her response will be wuill just affect on how and when you'll ask her out. Over preparing for asking out isn't a good thing at all as you think about the things you should do while asking her out and it will then be a uncomfortabale and unatural time.

As for kissing you don't need any of that to start a relationship. Most real relationships start with understanding and passion for each other. And the passion I'm talking about isn't desire [passion]. It's the passion to make each other happy.

So dtrain121.

Since you like her and all you should have an idea of what to do for your special date. If she likes nature or outgoing. maybe a subtle date where you can go for a nice park walk and head off to lunch after that. Is she's more of the cuddle type and media kind of girl then you might wanna go to to the movies and have a nice cuddle while watching. Is she's the adventorous type. The maybe go somewhere upbeat like a club or an arcade and impress her with some of your skills by winnning her things.
Do what you think will make her happy. Because only you can know how to make this day special. We can give you all the adive we can, but in the end it's you who determines how this date will be. Just go on the date with a nice outlook.

Now if you're looking for how to ask out someone. Stephen made us a nice guide. And here it is:

http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=30402


Goddluck on your future relationship with her. I know you'll make her happy

[syd]

i'm not assuming, i'm jsut saying, if a girl dosn't like you, she never will, it's best to find out if she does early than it is to later, it's just going to be wayy worse when you find out there's not a chancce.

[Ryandel]

If a girl doesn't like you DOESN"T mean she never will. Peoples views and thoughts change.

Anyways, acting as if it's that worse that "there's not a chance" is thinking closed minded.


[Has left this thread for no reason arguing further]

[syd]

If a girl doesn't like you DOESN"T mean she never will. Peoples views and thoughts change.

Anyways, acting as if it's that worse that "there's not a chance" is thinking closed minded.


[Has left this thread for no reason arguing further]
Not really. If someone likes someone, they did. if they did proper phsycoanalysis of them self