Asking someone out

[Aves]

I'm 14 years old, and have been single my entire life. I just want to know the best way to ask out a girl.

[Zephyr]

General Puberty -----> Relationships & Dating

[staying_alive]

okay it depends on what kind of person you are. if your'e an extremely outgoing person who can talk to girls all the time and not worry about being shot down, then just go and ask a girl you like to go to a movie or something. If you're like me, and are sort of shy and bad at asking girls out, then get to know the girl first. If you two are friends, it's a LOT easier to tell whether or not she likes you and not risk getting shot down. however, if you get shot down by a girl who's a close friend, it's a LOT worse for your friendship.

[syd]

Well, stay single. Best advice there is. Love jsut causes problems and fogs your mind. Wait 'til after you made tons of cash, then go lookin for love. in the mean time brush up on your social skills with girls and kissin'. remember no two people love each other exactly the same way. Naw I'm just joking, don't take what I said seriously bro.
The best way to ask a girl out is to just ask her out, seriously. Just start talking to her, and be like " i was wondering, would you ever wanna hang out sometime" and she'll be like "hang out LOL" then be like "yeah, hang out.. would you like see a movie with me?" and if she says yes "be like okay im serious can you go out this friday?" and then just take her and see if you're comfortable on the date remember nobody is too good for you, and if you feel right on the date, like you could definatley see yourself kissing her in the future, then, wait 'til after the date and be like wanna hang out tomarrow? and the next day you try to kiss her, but if she says no, then look into her eyes, and if she dosnt look away and she smiles put your arms on her shoulder and wait a few seconds, if she dosnt throw them off you kiss her. it's that simple. lifes too short to be scared of asking out a girl or be nervous abotu kissing her. if she dosnt wanna go out with you don't feel bad (i know it will feel sooo bad) but she wasn't worth your time then, she'll probably end up being a failure.

[bmxkid313]

well ask out girls who are out of you leage so if they say no youll be like ok there hot its ok there suposed to say no but if they say yes you fell like a champ

[ThatDude93]

I have basically been single my entire life...I had a "girlfriend" for three years (from age 9-12)...but she was ore like just a good friend. Her parents randomly made us break up out of nowhere. The a few years ago they sent her to a privat eschool in another state...it was weird. I still wonder what my relationship would hav been with her if her parent's hadn't of freaked...

But I might be on the verge of a real relationship now...I have a date to Prom as of today...she is another old friend...we've been friends since daycare. Her boyfriend broke up with her harshly over Christmas break...so I am taking this slow and easy...who knows...it might end up being something more...

[Lifeguard18]

Lock this thread. It's two years old. People please stop bumping and start looking at the dates in the yellow. Threads can't be bumped if it's more than three months old (I remembered that when I joined). I'm not a mod but I keep seeing a bunch of bumped posts.

[ThatDude93]

I didn't even notice the age....I need to look at that more

[Lifeguard18]

I didn't even notice the age....I need to look at that more

No one should blame themselves. Don't feel sorry. It was a mistake. I was just informing people. Like I said I'm not a mod But all of a sudden I'm seeing more and more bumped posts. Don't worry about it.

[Gumleaf]

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