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dannyd
November 24th, 2008, 08:21 PM
I am fifteen and I masturbate to gay porn a lot a rarley ever straight but I am attractedto girls and do things and go out with them and I don't think I could bring myself to go out with a guy but I would prob do stuff with him..... Can someone give me some enlightenment here I'm not gay am I ?
notsure101
November 24th, 2008, 08:23 PM
You could be gay but for right now you sound more on the bi, or curious side to me
P.S 900th post!
Oblivion
November 24th, 2008, 08:26 PM
Well looking at gay porn/wanting to experiment shows you like men physically and maybe sexually
But you said you also like woman in general (probably all four categories)
So, I would say while not being 100% straight (which few people are) you are probably still straight
However, if you decided you wanted to go out with men, and have sex with them etc, you would probably be bi or gay
But right now I would say you are straight
dannyd
November 24th, 2008, 08:28 PM
I was thinking I was bi but I couldn't go out with a boy maybe I am curious but I couldn't know until I try I guess but all my friends seem really against all of that stuff which bugs me
it's nice to know someone is in the same situation as me
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Oblivion
November 24th, 2008, 08:33 PM
Yep, you are only 15
You have at least 4 more years, probably 6 or 7 before you are done with puberty. Until then you will have raging hormones all over, and you will be confused a lot
george
November 24th, 2008, 08:40 PM
except I probably wouldnt do anything with a guy ;)
Aww why not? jk lol
You sound like a lot of teenage guys that are still pretty straight but would like to experiment with other guys. You're probably just curious and still have a long time to figure out what your sexuality is so just go with what you like and you'll find out soon enough. :)
Φρανκομβριτ
November 24th, 2008, 08:40 PM
you are having lots of puberty. You're young. I'd say you're straight, but expiramental.
dannyd
November 24th, 2008, 08:43 PM
ya I just need to find a person who is willing to experiment like me and if I end up liking it more then girls then I guess I'm gay ........but I do have this strange addiction to gay porn u guess it's just my hormones but sometimes icwonder if it's more than that
Φρανκομβριτ
November 24th, 2008, 08:47 PM
well, gay porn IS hot, but I'm gay.....
...If you are gay, you will only be able to see yourself in love with a man. When you pcture yourself as an older guy, would you be with a boy or girl.
dannyd
November 24th, 2008, 08:52 PM
I see myself with a girl and a lot of kids because I'm attracted to woman emotionally and sexually but I want to try guys at least once because I guess I find them sexually attractive
Does that make sense?
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Thanks :)
-Shattered
george
November 24th, 2008, 09:27 PM
Yes that makes perfect sense :) Like I said before, a lot of guys during puberty are just like you; straight but curious and wondering what it would be like to experiment with a guy.
You'll probably grow out of it once you come out of puberty because as of right now, you're still pretty much more attracted to girls emotionally and sexually.
dannyd
November 24th, 2008, 09:38 PM
thanks for the help guys ant other info just keep it coming
pierceman34
November 24th, 2008, 09:51 PM
my gay friend put it best, just because you are attracted to gay porn doesn't mean your gay, you are gay when you can see yourself spending the rest of your life with a man, but that goes along with the sexual side too
Φρανκομβριτ
November 24th, 2008, 11:54 PM
^^^^ exactly. You're straight. So go out, test the waters. You are a teen, this is time of experimentation. Just have fun!
Serenity
November 25th, 2008, 12:01 AM
can someone give me an idea what I am
You're a human being.
Even worse than that, you're a TEENAGER.
EW.
As if we don't have enough to worry about, right? Don't get so hung up on labelling yourself. This could be a hormone-induced phase that many, many people experience during puberty, or you could actually be gay or bi. But really at this stage in life there's just no telling. Thus, I say you start worrying about something concrete, like school and grades and friends.
Also, keep in mind that homosexuality isn't just physical attraction- there's also emotional attraction. You say you don't think you could bring yourself to date a guy, which pretty much screams 'This is just my hormones going crazy!' Don't act on your impulses; wait a couple of years and if you still feel this way, maybe you are gay/bi. Lol when I was 15 I wasn't worried about dating at all, let alone what gender I wanted to date. Again, as if there aren't enough things going through a teenager's mind to deal with.
curiousteen
November 25th, 2008, 12:43 AM
in my eyes ur probably straight curious
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