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[Greenapple0595]

My friend and I are "going out" (if you wana call it that) (we are both guys) and we were kissing and messing around last night and i got a hickey and my parents noticed, does anyone have any suggestions on how i could clear it up with them (they dont know im going out) (and i dont want them too).

If anyone does please help cause they are getting supiscious.

Thanks

[Oblivion]

Well really the only way to clear it up is to be honest
Tell them you are going out with a guy

Honestly if you don't want your parents knowing your going out with a guy, you probably shouldnt go out with him

[The Batman]

Nick it's not that easy when it comes to sexuality. Just lie and blame it on a random girl at school.

[Oblivion]

But thats the only real way to resolve an issue.
If you want to lie about it, and cover yourself for who knows how long, thats fine
But if you really want to resolve it, you need to talk to your parents about it

[The Batman]

Do your parents know you like guys?

[Θάνατος]

Well to be honest let it go for now unless your parents make a big deal about it.

I would suggest that you tell your b/f to not give you hickeys where they can be seen by your parents. I told my g/f's to give me them on the chest. It is awkward having hickeys but fun to get them.

I understand you not wanting to tell your parents about your sexuality. Mine step mom read some of my personal things and that is how my parents found out. They have treated me different every since. I agree don't tell your parents unless you know for sure you are gay or bi. This could just be a phase you are going through. Have fun and be more careful.

Please feel free to contact me if you want to talk more about this.

[whitecar]

i wouldnt tell them the truth. some things you just cant tell your parents... and that would be one of them. blame it on a girl at school... thats a good idea!

[Oblivion]

i wouldnt tell them the truth. some things you just cant tell your parents... and that would be one of them. blame it on a girl at school... thats a good idea!

Well they will find out, unless you decide you arent gay after all
So avoiding it is futile, because eventually you will tell them, or they will guess
Lying about it is a quick and easy way out, but it can work temporarily

[The Batman]

Nick I don't think it's a good idea to just mention to your parents that a guy gave you a hickey. Especially if they are homophobic. If it's something he doesn't have to mention than it is good that he doesn't but if he does then he should really lie about it until he can figure out what his sexuality is and if he wants to come out to them, but a hickey isn't good enough reason to come out.

[Oblivion]

Hmmm, sometimes small lie is best, i guess
But i still believe the only way to resolve the whole picture is telling the truth, although maybe a lie would be best int his situation

[Ryandel]

Nick you got to place yourself in their position. How would you feel about revealing about your sexual attractions to the people who live with you and will still do for a while. It'll be pretty hard. Everyone takes their own time to "come out".

If your hickey is still fresh, you can make it a little less noticeable bye applying ice to it. Alsmot like a swelling or brusing. But use ice. Also just be more careful next time.