ahhhhhh my friend likes me

[DarkWingedAngel]

ok well i will refrain from using names encase anyone from my school is on here

so one of my friends(girl) told me she has had a major crush on me for years she is bi and currently has a bf
yes im bi/curious but she is like like my sister
and I don't know what to tell her bf or what to do
what should i do guys

[Sapphire]

Just keep it between the two of you. It will have taken her quite a lot of courage to come out and tell you that. As long as she knows that you don't feel the same way and she doesn't act on her feelings at all, things should be fine. Her boyfriend would only really need to know if she tried to make things happen with you.

[DarkWingedAngel]

Well she has but I thought it was a friend thing.
She doesn't know that I don't feel that way towards her.
Should I tell her or not and let it play out.

[weredemon]

i have the same problem except backwards i have the gf and i like a girl

[Sapphire]

Well she has but I thought it was a friend thing.
She doesn't know that I don't feel that way towards her.
Should I tell her or not and let it play out.
What did she do?
If I were in your situation then I would probably be more inclined to let it play out unless the topic comes up in conversation again. In which case, I would be honest and tell her that I don't feel the same.

[Donkey]

Tell her how you feel, if it comes up, otherwise it's probably just a crush that will go away

[DarkWingedAngel]

What did she do?
If I were in your situation then I would probably be more inclined to let it play out unless the topic comes up in conversation again. In which case, I would be honest and tell her that I don't feel the same.
We were horsing around on my bed(big mistake) then she like went on top me and just stayed there for like 10 minutes looking right at me then my mom came in.
Then there was this other time we were in the halls of the school and she started to cuddle me.
Then there was this other time at my place we were watching a movie and she started to cuddle me agen.
And there are times where she has tried to make out with me and kiss me.
That's all I can think of at the moment.

[Sapphire]

Ok, I think you have to tell her that you only like her as a friend and to stop doing things like this.

[The Batman]

Is it the same friend that did this? http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=32273

[Camazotz]

Just admit to her that you don't have the same feelings for her so she will get over you.

[DarkWingedAngel]

Is it the same friend that did this? http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=32273

No, those were other friends she couldn't come because she was grounded.

[notsure101]

Don't let everybody know and you guys should talk and see what you guys want to do

[DarkWingedAngel]

Ok I'll try that!