View Full Version : Emotional rather than physical.
clr9823
November 18th, 2008, 03:33 PM
I am really attracted to this guy, but it's not sexual. The sexual element doesn't really come into it, I'm more emotionally attracted to him. I would say theres not much sexual attraction in it really! So does that make me bi, because I'm attracted to girls also, or could it just be curiosity?
notsure101
November 18th, 2008, 04:30 PM
You would have to experiment more and see what you like you could be by but give it some more time
Θάνατος
November 18th, 2008, 04:37 PM
Well it could mean you are bi, but it could be just a phase you are going through too. I think there is a point in where everyone goes through during puberty where they are attracted to both sexes.
I would think that you would have to act on your feelings.
There is nothing wrong with being bi or gay. Just go slow if you really like this guy it is best to see if he likes you too. It is best not to be labeled or hated if this guy does not like you.
Sapphire
November 18th, 2008, 04:49 PM
I would say that you are either close to this guy or are just drawn to him as a person.
From what you have said, you aren't bisexual. You would have to have a sexual attraction to him or other guys for your sexuality to be affected in anyway.
Patchy
November 18th, 2008, 05:03 PM
Moved to Teen Sexuality.
zoig
November 19th, 2008, 01:24 PM
You can grow bonds with people that are not based on lust, they can be powerfull feeling of attachment and love without the feelings of wanting to copulate with them.
It can be very confusing but you need to evaluate how you feel about this person and what chance there is for this to be grow and be mutual.
clr9823
November 19th, 2008, 04:24 PM
I would think that you would have to act on your feelings.
I would act on them, only I know the feeling isn't mutual:(, so I won't force anything onto him. I won't ruin our friendship.
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