Everyone guy I meet is a bully

[Lennonism]

I don't know what the problem is, but every single guy my age I've ever met has been a fucking bully.

I don't know if their hormones in puberty are telling them to divide and conquer, if they're just immature, or if I'm cursed, but EVERY SINGLE male freshman I have met at my high school has picked on me at one time or another. Some are worse than others, some have stopped after a while and became my friends, but I've been picked on by just about every other 9th grade boy in this school. Some people I've never even met before have randomly turned around and told their friends I was gay! I didn't even know the fucker.

I'm a pretty weak guy, and maybe they realize that, so they take advantage of me. I'm not the weakest, but I'm pretty bad. I couldn't win a fight with most of the kids that pick on me. All of my best friends are girls because I only have one guy friend. I'm always going over to girls' houses and gossiping with them, because I like that better than rough housing with guys and calling each other gay. Hell, sometimes I wish I WAS a girl (Except for the whole liking guys part). They're not really picking on me, that's just their way of playing with each other, but I don't like it. It hurts my feelings, but if I told them that, they'd think I was a pussy.

The only male students I've met that were immature bastards were 11th graders. Is this crap eventually going to stop, or am I doomed to this for the rest of high school?

[just-me]

hey, i have been diagnosed with depression and sometimes think everyone is against me, every one is bulllying me and every little comment hurts (im not saying this applys to you im just describing my situation).
i used to be bullied allot as well so i know how you feel!
my brother gave me some great advice though
if people are pickin on you, or hurting you screw them!
no one has the right to make you feel bad so just fuck them!
if people make you feel bad, just laugh at their immaturity and inability to make civilised convosation.
they are the ones less off not you!
but to anser your question, yes it will subside, i dont know when but i promise it will.
keep strong.

[Triceratops]

A lot of boys are c*nts tbh.
They treat people like crap, they have no respct for girls either.
They think they're overpowering but really they're pathetic and haven't matured yet.

[Hyper]

I wish I could say something positive to you..

But I rather know that the world mostly consists of pricks & an endless variation of assholes..

So in the end the only solution is to find people who think like you and have the same values, so you can ignore the assholes

[Removed]

Hyper where will we go without u :D u wise old soul :D:D

[Church]

Well, sounds like you should just ignore them, also the reason guys mess around with there friends and shit is cause it fun, we don't really mean it and if you take it to seriously you need to man up and tell them to fuck off, not dissing you or anything by saying that.

Also not every guy is a bully, it's called messing around, if you can't tell the two apart then you need to hang out with more guys, also the more you hang out with girls the more you are presumed gay, nothing wrong with being gay so don't think I dissing, if people call you gay just tell a teacher to stop them or something, or say "Yo I'm not gay so stfu"

[Matt_]

Well...
So you have to hang out with girls you say?

Yo I'm not gay so stfu
That will definitely get you hurt if he is in fact a bully.

[Church]

Most bullies are pussies and when faced with a challenge they'll back down, also if you cant fight worth a shit kick 'em in the nuts or turn your back, prob. in a school with teachers and stuff so they won't do shit

[wavey]

- agreed 90% of boysare pure twats

My friend seems to have grown up over the crimbo holidays, this lad was kicking him in pe, like, swinging his legs, he was laughing but my friend just sat on his legs andh e couldnt ,move xD

then the lad was angry and almost hit him.. :|

Just, let it pass, yeah i feel the same apparently 'GAY' i am.. but i aint, i like girls then they tick the piss because i said i like the look of a lass, fucking hell, they call me gay, then they have a go at me because i fancy a lass, WTF MAN!

Morale - Dont take SHIT just ignore the cunts and get on with it.

[Origami]

I don't know what the problem is, but every single guy my age I've ever met has been a fucking bully.

I don't know if their hormones in puberty are telling them to divide and conquer, if they're just immature, or if I'm cursed, but EVERY SINGLE male freshman I have met at my high school has picked on me at one time or another. Some are worse than others, some have stopped after a while and became my friends, but I've been picked on by just about every other 9th grade boy in this school. Some people I've never even met before have randomly turned around and told their friends I was gay! I didn't even know the fucker.

I'm a pretty weak guy, and maybe they realize that, so they take advantage of me. I'm not the weakest, but I'm pretty bad. I couldn't win a fight with most of the kids that pick on me. All of my best friends are girls because I only have one guy friend. I'm always going over to girls' houses and gossiping with them, because I like that better than rough housing with guys and calling each other gay. Hell, sometimes I wish I WAS a girl (Except for the whole liking guys part). They're not really picking on me, that's just their way of playing with each other, but I don't like it. It hurts my feelings, but if I told them that, they'd think I was a pussy.

The only male students I've met that were immature bastards were 11th graders. Is this crap eventually going to stop, or am I doomed to this for the rest of high school?


Don't worry, I know just how you feel, it really does suck. I'm just the same way except I do have a few more guy friends. And I don't know how it will turn out for you but, it has changed for me. Guys do mature, just not quickly. Guys are barbaric at times and quick tempered, but that's natural instinct and can't really be healped. But yes, they do learn, eventually.