So i got my first bj, but it wasnt enjoyable

[devilsheep]

Tonight i got my first blowjob, but it wasnt really enjoyable. I think i was thinking about it too much, and I wasnt even able to finish up.

whats a good way to just enjoy the moment and not think about it?

[theOperaGhost]

Umm...Just let it happen? Don't think about it and just let whatever happens happen. I don't really know how to make you not think about it though.

[Killah-X]

wait how old are you

[Prince_of_Peace]

and who gave it to you? heheh

[The Batman]

None of that really matters. Regardless of age or who did it we can get gun shy. Try to build a more emotional connection with this person that way it'll be a lot more special and about more than sex.

[Trickster]

I dont know just relax. Try closing ur eyes and putting ur head back.

[Sumitup]

It becomes more enjoyable after you've had them more... the first few times you can just get nervous.

[BlackBetty]

You are just nervous and excited, it will get better as time passes..

[Pompey1994]

i wanted a bj and i got one and i want more

[Synthslave]

it depends of the "blower"(if that word exists?).i felt like my penis was chewed morning after.whoosh.

[Cindex]

Tell your significant other (assuming tha'ts it, if not whoever it is) to do something that really turns you on. Think just about the physical feeling and nothing else.

[marktheman]

I think the best suggestion is just to close your eyes and relax. Even handjobs feel better if I have my eyes closed. Your imagination can add a lot if you can't actually see what's happening.

[TheTeen]

wads a blowjob?

[please help me 69]

where a person sucks on your dick... you got to be kidding you didnt know that

[Lola4563]

Oh, be nice.

[please help me 69]

ok fine

[yamahaguitarguy19]

do what nejix said sit back and enjoy stop stressing out

[nachtspiegel]

Most every first sexual experience tends to be a little nerve-wracking. The more you do it, the better it will be.

On a side note, isn't a little odd how a thread about some guy's dick getting sucked gains so much publicity without much notice being given to the fact that the same thing is being repeated?
:-P

[Oblivion]

The most enjoyable part of a relationship should be the love, not the sex
But of course the sex feels good too :P
So try just relaxing, dont think about it.
If your having second thoughts, dont do it.
Present pleasure for possible consequences is a deal you have to think about

[JohnnyFreight]

My first blowjob sucked because the person didn't know how to do it.\
The second person who did it had experience and it's seriously the most powerful orgasm I've ever had!

[kniwtohynroh]

i think the best way is to cum and give your partner a facial or fuck your partner:D