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rainebg
November 16th, 2008, 03:35 PM
Okay so me and this girl Becky have been going out for a little over a year and i know i love her-at least as a friend. Any way i think I'm gay and I've been looking at gay porn for like six months and I'm only sexually turned on by girls a little bit. This weekend I'm going to break up with her because I'm almost positive I'm gay but now I'm thinking about how i might still want to go out with her. i have no idea what to do. I need your opinions. also do you think I'm gay?
This post is a little hard to read but I'm very confused and my thoughts are all jumbled.
also whenever i think about coming out and breaking up with her i feel free.
Thank You!
:confused::confused::confused:

Donkey
November 16th, 2008, 03:44 PM
If you are gay, it's unfair to her if you continue going out with her.

If you think you're gay, you might not be... so just wait a while (at least after puberty) before properly labelling yourself but if your attraction to girls disappear then you're probably gay. if your attractions to girls stay, you're bisexual.

My advice: If you are attracted to her, continue going out. If you lose your attraction, break it up. Simple as that. If you think you love her.. you do ;)

Trickster
November 16th, 2008, 09:52 PM
It would break the girls heart if she found out u were gay and still going out. So i would just wait a bit, if u like girl physically still and love her u should think long and hard.