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Fiending_the_freedom
November 16th, 2008, 12:29 PM
ok this really isnt abuse, but i don't know, its about my ex, who sexually abused me, causing us to break up. that was a month ago.
anyways, this is what happened last night.

so brendan started texting me last night, and every text he sent, i just said stop contacting me right back. then i stop responding. the he started calling me, i wouldnt answer, he called me 30 times. so i turned off my phone, i told his friend about it because he was talking about killing himself, so his friend called him and told me Uh oh, hes on his way to your house (its 3am). i was like NO.
tell him not to or ill call the cops and he did but brendan still said if i dont answer the door hell scream ant my window so i was fucking SCARED by this point, and i hear something at my window, i look and its bar. standing there crying. i open the window and i tell him to leave or i'll call the cops. he says no, i say BRENDAN FUCKING LEAVE IM CALLING THE COPS. ARE YOU GOING TO LEAVE ? He said no, so i called the cops, they came took the info down. looked around for him, there going to call his dad and put a scare into before i press any charges, if he contacts me again i will press charges.

this is fucking scary.
hes turned all,
ex boyfriend stalker on me,
apparently he was outside my house a couple nights ago.
fucking creepy.
also at my birthday party on Friday, he was calling his friend who was there and asking him what i was doing, who i was talking to, at my OWN party.
This is fucked, im 16 i didnt think i would have to deal with THIS.

I hope this story doesnt scare jared away, he already wasnt going to see me as more than friends because of the threats from brendan and how much he was crying to him, but then he changed his mind as long as we kept it discrete.

i think this means hes not going to beat up jared because the cops are involved now.

JEEEZE

just-me
November 16th, 2008, 04:29 PM
ouch :/ thats not fair on you at all
and no matter what age are you you shouldnt have to deal with this
just stay strong and stick to what you say, if it continues call the cops
he has no right
good luck *hugs*

Eskie Dog
December 29th, 2008, 12:38 AM
Two things you might want to get:

Restraining Order

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