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Jean Poutine
November 16th, 2008, 02:32 AM
I've been interested in the issue of race and love lately (in my introduction I did mention I had numerous interests), stemming from my own preference to asian girls (ha). I would like to know how widespread this is. I decided to poll you guys to see if there were any trend.

simply put, if you're interested, jolt down your ethnicity and the ethnicity you prefer in a partner, if any (if you don't care, check "don't care", simply). it is perfectly possible that you prefer your own ethnicity. once you've done that, I would like to know why you prefer that ethnicity.

if you have numerous preferences, check the strongest. feel free to add the less strong ones in full after the checks. a preference does not mean it is exclusive, it means just that, a preference. I would still date a white girl, even if I do strongly prefer asians.

once you've jolted down both, I would also like to know why. please try to be as honest as possible while maintaining a reasonably politically correct discourse. it could be physical appearance. it could simply be because you've felt more comfortable around x ethnicity. it could even be because of the perception you have of this ethnicity, eg. you're acting on stereotypes (if this is the case, do not elaborate. I'm curious to a fault but I don't want verbal altercations here).

lastly, here is a small message to mods. this is a topic I've had the idea for late at night, on a curious impulsion. I understand that the topic can be sensitive. if you'd rather not take risks, feel free to lock. do so as well if this violates the TOS in any way (I looked for a copy to be sure, but didn't find one, but I didn't look hard). I do trust in the maturity of the members.

remember, this is only for curiosity's sake. play fair, buddies. a racial preference does not mean inherent racism.

I'll start (copy paste that and put your own responses).

I am (you can check more than one) :

[X]caucasian
[]black
[]iberian (portuguese, spanish, and their decendants eg. brazilians, mexicans)
[]native american
[]south asian (ie. indian, bangladeshi)
[]southeast asian
[]other : specifiy please

I prefer (jolt down one) :

[]caucasians
[]blacks
[]iberians
[]south asians
[X]southeast asians
[]other : specify please
[]don't care (no obvious preferences)

Why : physical appearance. their most common facial characteristics appeal to me, as well as the generally petite build.

Zephyr
November 16th, 2008, 02:47 AM
I am (you can check more than one) :

[X]caucasian
[]black
[]iberian (portuguese, spanish, and their decendants eg. brazilians, mexicans)
[]native american
[]south asian (ie. indian, bangladeshi)
[]southeast asian
[]other : specifiy please

I prefer (jolt down one) :

[]caucasians
[]blacks
[]iberians
[]south asians
[]southeast asians
[]other : specify please
[x]don't care (no obvious preferences)

Why : I like to keep my options open. Most everybody is beautiful to everybody.

BlackenedSilver
November 16th, 2008, 07:18 AM
I am (you can check more than one) :

[X]caucasian
[]black
[]iberian (portuguese, spanish, and their decendants eg. brazilians, mexicans)
[]native american
[]south asian (ie. indian, bangladeshi)
[]southeast asian
[]other : specifiy please

I prefer (jolt down one) :

[]caucasians
[]blacks
[]iberians
[]south asians
[]southeast asians
[]other : specify please
[x]don't care (no obvious preferences)

Why: I dont like to judge people on skin colour or looks, If they have a nice personality and they ask me out.. I will date them.

Luckz
November 16th, 2008, 07:24 AM
I am (you can check more than one) :

[X]caucasian
[]black
[]iberian (portuguese, spanish, and their decendants eg. brazilians, mexicans)
[]native american
[]south asian (ie. indian, bangladeshi)
[]southeast asian
[]other : specifiy please

I prefer (jolt down one) :

[]caucasians
[]blacks
[]iberians
[]south asians
[X]southeast asian
[]other : specify please
[]don't care (no obvious preferences)

ones seen poor is somehow seen with wealth,
another mans junk is another mans treasure

Donkey
November 16th, 2008, 08:13 AM
I am (you can check more than one) :

[x]caucasian
[]black
[]iberian (portuguese, spanish, and their decendants eg. brazilians, mexicans)
[]native american
[]south asian (ie. indian, bangladeshi)
[]southeast asian
[]other : specifiy please

I prefer (jolt down one) :

[x]caucasians
[]blacks
[]iberians
[]south asians
[]southeast asians
[]other : specify please
[]don't care (no obvious preferences)

Trickster
November 16th, 2008, 12:20 PM
I am (you can check more than one) :

[]caucasian
[X]black
[]iberian (portuguese, spanish, and their decendants eg. brazilians, mexicans)
[]native american
[]south asian (ie. indian, bangladeshi)
[]southeast asian
[]other : specifiy please

I prefer (jolt down one) :

[]caucasians
[]blacks
[]iberians
[]south asians
[]southeast asians
[]other : specify please
[X]don't care (no obvious preferences)

Underground_Network
November 16th, 2008, 12:49 PM
I am (you can check more than one) :

[X]caucasian
[]black
[]iberian (portuguese, spanish, and their decendants eg. brazilians, mexicans)
[]native american
[]south asian (ie. indian, bangladeshi)
[]southeast asian
[]other : specifiy please

I prefer (jolt down one) :

[]caucasians
[]blacks
[]iberians
[]south asians
[]southeast asians
[]other : specify please
[X]don't care (no obvious preferences)

Why : I don't really care, I've been sexually (and emotionally) attracted to someone of almost every race.

mr.sexy_bomb
November 16th, 2008, 01:46 PM
i am
iberian(mexican)

i
preffer
caucasians

because thats what i have always dated and they are hot for the most part

Serenity
November 16th, 2008, 02:19 PM
I am

[] caucasian
[x] black
[] liberian (portuguese, spanish, and their decendants eg. brazilians, mexicans)
[] native american
[] south asian (ie. indian, bangladeshi)
[] southeast asian
[] other: specifiy please

[I'm actually 1/2 white, 1/4 black, 1/8 native american, 1/8 Santo Domingan, but I identify as black]

I prefer

[x] caucasians
[] blacks
[] liberians
[] south asians
[] southeast asians
[] other: specify please
[] don't care (no obvious preferences)

I've been mildly interested in two or three black guys before and very interested in an Asian guy before. For the most part, though, I'm attracted to white guys. My brother's the same way.

Gumleaf
November 16th, 2008, 10:44 PM
I am (you can check more than one) :

[X]caucasian
[]black
[]iberian (portuguese, spanish, and their decendants eg. brazilians, mexicans)
[]native american
[]south asian (ie. indian, bangladeshi)
[]southeast asian
[]other : specifiy please

I prefer (jolt down one) :

[]caucasians
[]blacks
[]iberians
[]south asians
[]southeast asians
[]other : specify please
[X]don't care (no obvious preferences)

Why : i really don't care. my current gf is caucasian, but my ex. gf was phillipino so i can say truthfully that i have no specific preference.

eikookmi
November 17th, 2008, 09:45 AM
I am (you can check more than one) :

[X]caucasian
[]black
[]iberian (portuguese, spanish, and their decendants eg. brazilians, mexicans)
[]native american
[]south asian (ie. indian, bangladeshi)
[X]southeast asian
[]other : specifiy please

I prefer (jolt down one) :

[]caucasians
[]blacks
[]iberians
[]south asians
[]southeast asians
[]other : specify please
[X]don't care (no obvious preferences)

Why : I dont care what race they are.

Avalikia
November 17th, 2008, 01:35 PM
[X]caucasian
[]black
[]iberian (portuguese, spanish, and their decendants eg. brazilians, mexicans)
[]native american
[]south asian (ie. indian, bangladeshi)
[]southeast asian
[]other : specifiy please

I prefer (jolt down one) :

[X]caucasians
[]blacks
[]iberians
[]south asians
[]southeast asians
[]other : specify please
[]don't care (no obvious preferences)

Why : It mostly has to do with where I live. I don't have anything against other races (in fact I'd have no problem dating someone of another race) but it's hard to find another race where I live to begin with in this area, and those I do meet tend to be so different culturally that I know I'd have a hard time.