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BeautifulSilence
November 15th, 2008, 03:07 PM
Well, I realised last night that I'm attracted to crossdressers, transvestites and transexuals, as well as just guys. I also don't care what their orientation is.

I've been thinking that I may be pansexual. Although, I'm confused that I've never been attracted to girls physically and emotionally (at the same time). E.g. I've found a girl's personality attractive, but not her appearance or I've found a girl's appearance attractive, but I don't feel a connection that I would if I found a guy's appearance attractive.

Oh, and I've never really thought about what it would be like to actually go with a girl... But, I do like to flirt with girls (even when they don't flirt back).

I want to come out, but not if I'm straight. Hence, I'm asking you guys what you think of my situation (or whatever you want to call it).

If you've got questions, ask. I'm not sure how much sense this actually makes :P

*Gwyn, don't say you saw this coming, lol.

JoshDude
November 15th, 2008, 07:45 PM
You could very well be pansexual. (For those of you who don't know what this is, it's when you are attracted to all people, emotionally or physically, regardless of gender).

Its hard to answer XD. So, you see males as both physically attractive, and emotionally?
And you do see girls attractive physically and emotionally, but never both at the same time?
I would say that perhaps you should go out with a girl, and see if you can enjoy it enough. Then if you do believe you like girls, as much as you can like males we could consider you bisexual.

Then onto the crossdressers and the likes.
If you are attracted to them, phyiscally and emotionally, then I guess we could consider you a pansexual.

I tried the best I could XD.
Difficult to answer.
Goodluck finding out!