Boys..

[Buggahh]

If you tell a guy how you feel about him and hes like a close friend and then for the next couple of days things are awkward between you... what does it mean... this is for a friend... i can give you more details of what she said and stuff if needed...

[JoshDude]

I honestly have no idea what you're trying to say/ask.

Are you asking why it's awkward for a girl to tell a boy how she feels about him? Well it's not always going to be awkward, it can depend on different factors, such as who the person is, and what they're like.

[Sapphire]

There are too many possibilities for anyone to be able to tell tbh.

[Θάνατος]

Well it could mean he doesn't feel the same way as you do. I think we really need more information to make a decision here.

[Sapphire]

Well it could mean he doesn't feel the same way as you do.
It could mean the opposite though, which is why more information is needed.

[Whisper]

I hate to break it to you hun but guys aren't as basic and simple as girls like to think
Nor is the situation

I'm not voting because all i'd be doing is guessing
The best way to find out
Is ask

[khaos14]

I had this happen to me. It was very stressful and confusing. He's probably thinking to himself if he really wants to go through with this or if he wants to keep things the way they are. It's really stressful for him right now. However it IS possible that doesn't like you that way. Just play it by ear and maybe ask him about it lightly in a day or two.

[theOperaGhost]

I'm going to be like Kodie. It's not simple at all. I'm not going to vote. I've kind of had it happen to me, so I know what it's like, kind of. There are many things going through his mind and it might just take time to sort out his feelings.

[Buggahh]

i will post more information tomorrow im posting for my cousin lol what im asking is i guess what reasons could there be for things being awkward. i think i might just take the poll out

[Camazotz]

I also agree with Kodie. It's going to be different in different situations and different guys. It can be anything, so asking is probably best.

[Buggahh]

Okay more info.. they have been friends for about 3 years now. And she said exactly the following...i would give my life to see that you were happy, that noone hurts you and i would like to be the one that you'll turn to no matter what the problem. Like i guess i want you to be my best friend, you and me against the world, but it's never like that, it's never been like that and I know that it never will be. For every breath I take theres 100 things I could say about you, 100 reasons why you mean everything to me, why you are everything to me. If only i could only begin to explain how much you have improved my life, how much meaning you've given it, how I know that my life would be nothing without you in it. But then I take a step back and wonder how much one person can mean so much to me, how much more they mean to me every second i know them, and then i look at myself and realise a girl like me could never mean anything to a guy like you, a guy like you could never look at a girl like me twice, give her a second chance. But not you, you've given me chance after chance and you know what I always end up pushing you away because I know that one day I'm going to have to let go,
not only of you but of my best friend, a part of me, a part of my world. And everyday that I wake up I know that it's one less day that I've got with you. But then i think about all the other people, and i realise that little old me, I'm bottom of the pile, always screw up, always ruin things. So that is why I know that I will never be good enough, but it's also why I hold onto you so Tightly. You make me complete. And you know what I am in love with you Ollie S****.
I know that you'll never feel the same which is why any help or advice that I give you is as a friend, i dont let it cloud my judgement, but you know what your mum must be an angel to raise you and nick to be the perfect young lads you are, and i really respect her for that, if i could raise kids anywhere near as amazing as you i will be one proud mother.
thats the truth if you dont like it i understand but there you go you know what i think


He went offline afterwards but not because of what she had said and they spoke about why he had gone offline the next day and he said that it werent her fault. Things were really awkward, they were barely talking where as normally theyd be talking non stop.

[Sapphire]

That is pretty heavy stuff. I don't think anyone would know how to react to being told all of this or indeed how to think/feel about it.
She hasn't really asked how he feels, rather she has told him how he feels. He needs time to work out what feelings he has for your friend and then she should ask him about it (if that is indeed what she wants).

[Buggahh]

thanks she took your advice and everythings okay now. Infact im just gonna let her type ha.

Thank you guys so much, youve really helped me out and were gonna talk things through next month at my party. I came to realise that having him as a friend.. is better than not having him at all so thanks