Sweet Dream Makeout

[TurboDieselBandit]

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Last night I had dream that one of my close friends (a boy) randomly kissed me and we started making out. Before I knew it I was really enjoying it and was very turned on by it. But now that I am awake I still feel very good about it and want to do it for real. I am also starting to feel slightly attracted to him. I have thought about if I were to be gay a lot, way before this and I know for sure that I am not gay. Bi???......eeeehhhh..... maybe, but I don't think so,.....cureous?...defiantly..... would I date (in secret) another guy? uuuummm.....i dont know but probably not. But if I did I would really have to like him. (**in secret = he knows and agrees but we don't tell any one**) This is not the first time I have had feelings like this. so....

>>Is this a sign that I might possibly be bi?
>>Is it OK to "experiment" with him if he wants to?
>>How should I tell him how I feel?
>>How should I ask him if he wants to "play around"?

> > > PS: He is a vary nice guy and I would be completely devastated and hurt if he stopped hanging around me or started to treat me different because of this. I don't like him just for his looks or for sexual reasons. I really like him for who he is and his personality.
***(I feel worried about saying all this because I have ALWAYS kept these feelings to my self and now I put my self out in the open)***

[george]

1. Is it OK to "experiment" with him if he wants to?
2. How should I tell him how I feel?
3. How should I ask him if he wants to "play around"?


Did anything happen between you two that might have caused this dream like maybe 1 or 2 days before you had the dream? Dreams are like brain moving around events that have happened in the past and they sort of just jumble together and you "dream" it.

You could just be curious or may be bisexual.
Would you have sex AND have feelings for a guy?
Would you have sex AND have feelings for a girl?
If you answered yes to all 4 parts of the 2 questions then your probably bisexual but since you're only 15, you never know.

1. If both of you are okay and you guys do it somewhere you won't get caught then go for it. It's normal for guys in puberty to experiment with the same sex.

2. You should tell him when you two are alone and have some privacy like maybe invite him over to your house to hang out. Before you tell him though, you should make sure that your feelings are real so that something like; he feels the same way for you but then a year later you don't like as much but he still likes you.

3. If you do invite him over and tell him that you have feelings for him then maybe ask him if he wants to sleepover. If you guys ever get onto the topic of puberty/masturbation you could maybe hint that your horny or something like that. Maybe watch some porn with him and go on from there. Be careful though, you don't want to do anything that could hurt your friendship with him.

I don't like him just for his looks or for sexual reasons. I really like him for who he is and his personality.

That's great and if you ever do get into a relationship with your friend, I'm sure it'll be really good.

[TurboDieselBandit]

thanks! and very good response.

Every one still feel free to post. Any advice is welcome!!!