my biggest mistake

[just-me]

i told my mum how i felt and ever since she has just pissed me off to no end.
she asks how she can help, if only she could forget i ever told her anythin. that would be best.
i just cant deal with her constant questions and talks, they are tearing me apart.
cant she just leave me alone ...

[Buggahh]

Tell her that that's what she can do to help. If you need to talk. PM me.

[just-me]

ive already told her that and she went on about how she just cant, how she feel like shes failed as a parent and how she feels compelled to help me in any way.
she smothering me and she cant understandi cope best on my own, i scrape by but thats enough. ive been this was for so long and yet she thinks it just come about. she doesnt know me, not really, and thats why it anoys me even more. i just cbf with her anymore tbh :/

[Halibut]

tell her that the best thing for her to do for you would to be just have some time to yourself and for her to let you be:) goodluck and she is only doing it because she loves you.

[just-me]

i know that but as much as i tell her to back off really makes no difference. i wish i hadnt said anythin but i cant change the past, so just gotta grin n bear it now :/

[Buggahh]

my mum doesnt understand that her leaving me alone sometimes is best youve got to tell her that if she carries on shell push you away and you'll rebel youve got to make her understand that you dont mind her caring, and showing an interest. But shes smothering you and she needs to see that there is a huge difference between the two. I've had similar chats with my mum if you need any more help pm me : ) x