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justwondering1995
November 11th, 2008, 10:16 PM
okay so last night i had an escapade. I have a neighbor, thats a girl. and she called me and wanted me to come over. I did, and once i got there we sat down on the couch and watched tv. then she started talking about sex and how all her friends lost their virginity already. so she took my pants off and started to suck my balls i immediately pushed her head off and walked out of her house. (btw she managed to stroke my dick about 5 times) did i lose my virginity?

DarkWingedAngel
November 11th, 2008, 10:31 PM
well she did suck you
so i don't know it depends how you think of things
the definition is when you have any sexual contact but most people go by penetration
so it really depends on your beliefs



EDIT:i like to think of it this way
when you have sex you loose your virginity
that means
vaginal sex, anal sex and oral sex

but that's just my opinion

Neverender
November 12th, 2008, 12:55 AM
well, they way i count losing your virginity is you had intercourse. i have sucked a penis or two in my life and i still call myself a virgin. but virginity is a hard subject to cover, as all people have their own preferences.

JoshDude
November 12th, 2008, 02:03 AM
I believe that you didn't lose your virginity.
In my opinion, losing your virginity is sexual intercourse.

Donkey
November 12th, 2008, 02:31 AM
My definition: vaginal intercourse. So, no, and you didn't want to so even if you did vaginal intercourse but didn't want it, I would still consider you a virgin

Random_oso06
November 12th, 2008, 02:47 AM
the only way for you to lose your virginity is in anal or vaginal sex but it dependents what you call sex if you call oral sex sex than in your point of view your not a virgin but to others it might be different

Halibut
November 13th, 2008, 04:18 PM
well it depends on your on views. do you see your virginity lost by penitration. or oral sex. i dont think you did.

Sumitup
November 13th, 2008, 09:40 PM
In my opinion you're still a virgin until you have vaginal sex or anal sex...

Buddy
November 14th, 2008, 10:55 PM
Sorry my friend but i think you have, if you go by the book if you have sex you have lost your virginity and what you described was oral SEX

The Batman
November 14th, 2008, 11:10 PM
If you go by the book the definition of sex is the penis entering a vagina and that is not what happened.

Archer600
December 13th, 2008, 12:37 AM
in my opinion you arent a virgin any more and thats why they call it oral sex and as long as the girl isnt ugly i'd go back there and seal the deal if you know what i mean

sploshblosh
December 13th, 2008, 02:13 AM
u arent FULL STOP

new_kid_on_the_block
December 14th, 2008, 06:57 PM
why are you worried about this subject? did you want to wait until you were married or until your old enough? to do it legally

Barin
December 19th, 2008, 03:08 PM
im not sure sbout that totally but probably not. were you letting her doit without a problem or wer u telling her to stop. if you wanted her to do it id probably say yes but im not totally sure

Barin
December 19th, 2008, 03:10 PM
in my opinion you arent a virgin any more and thats why they call it oral sex and as long as the girl isnt ugly i'd go back there and seal the deal if you know what i mean
id kinda agree with the first part but not the second part.

pistonfan28
December 20th, 2008, 11:32 AM
No, you lose your virginity when you have Sexual Intercourse with a another person (female)

Jammy Jams
December 20th, 2008, 04:21 PM
i think, to lose your virginity, you have to have vaginal or anal sex

alsoknownas
December 20th, 2008, 04:30 PM
why tell her to stop :confused:

pizzamon
December 29th, 2008, 12:39 AM
I would say you didn't lose your virginity seeing as you stopped and it wasn't penetration, mainly because you stopped though.

kipper
October 4th, 2009, 12:49 PM
i feel anal sex is using your virginity so i don't think so

Grey fox
October 4th, 2009, 12:58 PM
Sucking your balls an stroking your penis does not count as you losing your virginity OR her losing hers.

What would count as loosing it is if it had progressed to either vaginal, anal or oral sex. If you are unsure of exactly any of those entail, look them up on Wikipeidia.

Triceratops
October 4th, 2009, 01:10 PM
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