sex question

[skitz100]

alright
well i have a question about.. well yah sex aha
im still a virgin as of now, but its coming soon.
alright to the question already.

i read somewhere that after the male ejaculates ur supposed to pull out and remove the condom, but that be only like 30 seconds of sex!?!
is his true or did i read it wrong =/

[skitz100]

please help =/

[Donkey]

I'm not 100% sure, but after ejaculation the male is usually very tired so it would be pointless to carry on, as usually the erection goes straight down.

Foreplay is useful to make your time last longer, although it's not sex itself.

[Requin]

OK first, please don't double post...the mods have enough to do. :-)
I think you read it wrong slightly. Everyone has different ejaculation times, so for some people this isn't a problem.
But after the male ejaculates, you generally become tired slightly after the release of energy so to speak. This is just from masturbation experience mind you but that is what masturbation is after all. It's all different with men but if you ejaculate after about a minute and then stop having sex, your going to get one unhappy lady friend, or maybe not? There all different same as us..
The BBC Health Site explains more:

What happens in the body?



The technical stuff that creates all this tension is pretty amazing.

Your heart pumps faster and your breathing gets heavier to fuel those tensing muscles.
Hormones such as endorphins and oxytocin are pumped round your brain and body, telling you this is fun.
Blood is pumped to your genitals to create the tension that will ultimately trigger a pudendal reflex (muscular spasm of the genitals).
That reflex will result in your pelvic-floor muscles contracting between five and 15 times at 0.8-second intervals. This is an orgasm as we know it.
A wandering neural pathway that bypasses the spine has recently been discovered, explaining why some paraplegics say they can experience orgasms.
What an orgasm isn't

An orgasm should never be the objective of sex. You can have a great time with a partner, feeling aroused, sensual, intimate and loving, and not have an orgasm. Yes, it's fun - but unless you're trying to get pregnant it shouldn't be your primary goal.
You can't make someone have an orgasm. What you can do, besides physically stimulating your partner, is create a safe, comfortable and caring environment for them in which an orgasm might happen.
Orgasm is not limited to the genitals; some people can experience orgasm without their genitals being touched. Some people describe the sensation as a "tingle"; for others the feelings go all over the body.
Faking it

Why do some people - male and female - fake orgasms? Maybe because we tend to see orgasm as the signal to stop sex. If, for some reason, your mind or body doesn't fancy an orgasm you could be at it forever.
Most people who fake it do so to please their partner. They feel they're letting them down if they don't make it. Instead of pretending, try and create a relationship where, if you're not in the mood or you've lost the momentum, you can say so honestly.
Quality not quantity

We tend to make a huge fuss about orgasms in our society. Most articles about enhancing your sex life focus on improving orgasms or having more of them. But the intensity of an orgasm is not an indication of sexual satisfaction. If you want a good orgasm, you can do it yourself. If you want a satisfying sexual relationship, you'll need a lot more.
In psychosexual therapy, people are told about the 2-6-2 rule. Out of every ten times you have sex, the chances are that twice it'll be fantastic and mind-blowing, and the earth will move; six times it'll be nice but nothing special; and twice you'll wish you hadn't bothered.

[skitz100]

so after u ejaculate you should stop?

i seem to have this feeling that its not gonna take very long for me to cum aha

[Requin]

No you can continue...it's up to you and whether you can carry on...there's no limit.
Unless she asks you to of course.

[skitz100]

if the condom is full of cum
is it safe to continue?

last thing id need is her pregnant lol

[Rutherford The Brave]

No it is not safe, get a new condom if you wish to continue or the condom fairy will smack you :D!

[Antares]

I understand your question now,

Okay so youre having sex, fun fun fun.
You have your condom on, you have been going at it for like 10 mins, you cum.
After you cum and your erection starts to go down (happens because of a refraction period i believe it is called and can last usually for a few mins to hours.)
So as you feel you are starting to lose your erection begin to take your condom off. Make sure nothing spills, then tie it and throw it away.
If you want to go at it again, simply get a new condom.

Good luck :D Stay safe

[Θάνατος]

After you cum in a condom you should pull out. As you are pulling out grab the bottom of the condom so the condom doesn't slip off while pulling out.

The reason for pulling out so that the condom doesn't break if you continue to have sex.

It it perfectly OK to continue having sex but another new condom should be used.

Remember a condom can only be used once.

I hope this helps answer your questions.

[MrMike]

Yeah because when the penis becomes flaccid (not erect) again the condom could spill and cause a problem. So take it out once your done.
Hope u don't mind my input.