Forgetting

[clr9823]

Listen I need a bit of advice. I kinda fancy this guy. I don't think I'm gay, just I fancy this one guy. Anyway, I wanna forget about him. Although we will probably end up messing around (experimenting), he's told me that he won't go out with any of his close friends (which includes me). I know not to pursue a relationship with him, so I won't. I feel him telling me this has helped it but, does anybody know of any method to reduce the attraction, he has become quite distracting :wub: .
Sorry if this is in wrong section!

[george]

Only thing I can really tell you is that generally, you want something the more you can't have it. I hope that helps somehow.

[UrGoingDown]

Maybe find other distractions?
Focus on other things instead of him..I'm not sure 100% if that'll work, though.
It's helped for some and not for others.

[John Marston]

maybe if you do experiment ALOT then he may grow feelings for you if not then maybe you need to get away from him like ask your parents/caregivers for a trip for 2 or 3 weeks away from home. bring lots of things that could distract you from him and NOTHING that reminds of him maybe you'll fall for a girl there and live there or have a long distance relationship and your feelings towards him will just fade away...if not then i dont know how to help you except experiment or give up.

and about your signature...a fetish is something you like to have happen to you or like to do LOTS e.g. a fetish for pain is that you like pain you want pain to come to you and therefore you hurt yourself lots because your fetish may make you feel good when you hurt yourself.or a fetish for porn would be the same as a porn addict but it may be less or more extreme in deferent cases.
-SUMMARY-
A fetish is like a addiction you have to get what you have a fetish of.
Hope that helps :smile:

[MAtthewwehttaw]

maybe if you do experiment ALOT then he may grow feelings for you if not then maybe you need to get away from him like ask your parents/caregivers for a trip for 2 or 3 weeks away from home. bring lots of things that could distract you from him and NOTHING that reminds of him maybe you'll fall for a girl there and live there or have a long distance relationship and your feelings towards him will just fade away...if not then i dont know how to help you except experiment or give up.

and about your signature...a fetish is something you like to have happen to you or like to do LOTS e.g. a fetish for pain is that you like pain you want pain to come to you and therefore you hurt yourself lots because your fetish may make you feel good when you hurt yourself.or a fetish for porn would be the same as a porn addict but it may be less or more extreme in deferent cases.
-SUMMARY-
A fetish is like a addiction you have to get what you have a fetish of.
Hope that helps :smile:
Lol. I Think He Was Joking.

[BlackBetty]

Just forget about it.... Are you bi??

[clr9823]

maybe if you do experiment ALOT then he may grow feelings for you if not then maybe you need to get away from him like ask your parents/caregivers for a trip for 2 or 3 weeks away from home. bring lots of things that could distract you from him and NOTHING that reminds of him maybe you'll fall for a girl there and live there or have a long distance relationship and your feelings towards him will just fade away...if not then i dont know how to help you except experiment or give up.

and about your signature...a fetish is something you like to have happen to you or like to do LOTS e.g. a fetish for pain is that you like pain you want pain to come to you and therefore you hurt yourself lots because your fetish may make you feel good when you hurt yourself.or a fetish for porn would be the same as a porn addict but it may be less or more extreme in deferent cases.
-SUMMARY-
A fetish is like a addiction you have to get what you have a fetish of.
Hope that helps :smile:

Sorry about my signature, It is a very funny quote from my Good friend Andy (Not real Name). I will make it more obvious!!!
Thanks for all the suggestions, but lets just say that I'm hoping that when we experiment one thing will lead to another, and if not I will just give up.