Question about sex (please help!)

[OtheScientist]

There's this girl that rents my room in the house. She is very attractive and I tried spying on her while she showers and other stuff. I am really attracted to her, but she's a little older than me. I want to have sex with her really bad. What should I do?

[Requin]

Well don't spy on her in the shower to start with. That's not the best way to start a relationship.
Do the boring stuff, get to know her more, talk to her, not watch her in the shower.
How much older to start with and to be honest if that's a problem with her, leave it.

Don't rush things and throw it in her face as if it goes wrong, you two will struggle to see eye to eye in the future. That's not a good thing, so yeah just talk to her and get to know her more. The boring but good stuff.

[Mzor203]

Joe has this one mainly down. I just want to add that, if you guys got into a relationship, and then something happened, it would not be a good thing, as she's living in your house. It would be really awkward then, and there wouldn't be much you could do about it. Don't rush anything, and if you think it could go wrong, don't do it.

[pontiacdriver]

There's this girl that rents my room in the house. She is very attractive and I tried spying on her while she showers and other stuff. I am really attracted to her, but she's a little older than me. I want to have sex with her really bad. What should I do?

What you are doing is totally wrong and is an invasion of privacy. You just don't have sex with someone as you need to generally have a relationship before working your way up to sex. Relationships are built upon trust, and the fact that you are violating this woman's private space is hardly a solid basis on which to build a relationship. I think you need to firstly understand that sex is not just physical feelings but rather primarily emotional with your sharing yourself with someone with the physical aspect of sex being a concrete manifestation of that sharing.

Long story short, if you ever want to have a shot at this girl, then treat her with respect and a human being. Respecting this woman's privacy is a needed start. From there you can talk with this woman and get to know her as a person. Remember that if this girl is over 18, then your chances with her is going to be slim. Also, with your being the son of her landlord it is unlikely she would have sex with you out of fear of causing problems with your parents. Basically, get to know this girl first, and if things work out, then maybe you can have a chance with her.