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chub4chub
November 10th, 2008, 09:32 AM
I ask only because, I haven't had sex with any one yet but think I am gay or bi. Only because I have strong feeling for same sex. A hot boy at my church. How do you approch some one else? I guess I want to havwe sex now. But I want it to be some-one around my own age.

Stewart
November 10th, 2008, 09:39 AM
How old are you?

Ratchet
November 10th, 2008, 12:18 PM
Nope havent tossed salad yet wonder how it would be?

Donkey
November 10th, 2008, 12:39 PM
Build a genuine relationship, based on both emotional and physical attraction. Remember, emotionally is still important or your relationship will not work out.

First, if he isn't gay, don't bother with a relationship. Try experimenting.

If he is:
Not gay:
Become friends, after a while have a sleep over and masturbate or something and build up on that.
Gay:
Become friends and ask him out/ have a gradual relationship build up.

Also consider if you are ready for sex, and if you will regret it. The law, actually does matter.

zoig
November 10th, 2008, 09:50 PM
^ Pretty much what Donkey said, just have a plan B ready to action if he turns you down so as not to burn the friendship.

Also helps to have a plan C for if you guys do get it on but have second thoughts or regrets after, that saves a lot of time being embarrassed and avoiding each other for a long period of time.

Good luck, have fun and play safe!

Neverender
November 10th, 2008, 11:44 PM
I ask only because, I haven't had sex with any one yet but think I am gay or bi. Only because I have strong feeling for same sex. A hot boy at my church. How do you approch some one else? I guess I want to havwe sex now. But I want it to be some-one around my own age.

wow. i could make up so many jokes about the church thing. where was the preist?..lol

anyways, are you sure you are gay or bi and not curious? if you love guys emotionally and physically, then you are gay, if you love both sexes emot+phys then you are bi, and loving guys physically means you are curious, and you get a boner when you look at them. anyways, it would be called experimenting (doing it with another boy), and it's perfectly normal. but if you do ask him, it can end up badly. Jon (donkey) already said what can happen. also, how old is he? if hes like 19 and your 13 then its illegal and you shouldn't be doing it.

BlackBetty
November 10th, 2008, 11:46 PM
We are not allowed to post this kind of information, thread has been reported...

Antares
November 10th, 2008, 11:48 PM
We are not allowed to post this kind of information, thread has been reported...

You totally don't have to post that you reported it though...
Otherwise it's fine. We can't give you advice on how to have sex with him.
So basically the only question that kinda should be answered at this point is if you have had gay sex.

Otherwise, no I haven't. And I think that the best way to handle your situation is to WAIT!!!
You are ONLY 13...?
You are young. You shouldn't even be worrying about this kind of stuff in my opinion. Focus on school work and use your hand as your man.
Its much safer and makes things SOO much easier to handle.

chub4chub
November 11th, 2008, 03:56 PM
why report? I am new here and looking for others to chat with. Not have sex with. This should not bae a violation.

marktheman
November 24th, 2008, 02:07 PM
I have gone as far as hj and bj with my best friend. Haven't had sex with a girl, and probably won't until I'm a little older.

notsure101
November 24th, 2008, 07:32 PM
Just talk to him get to know him better see how things go and see if they go in the right direction for you

Jamesmmur
December 2nd, 2008, 05:10 PM
I ask only because, I haven't had sex with any one yet but think I am gay or bi. Only because I have strong feeling for same sex. A hot boy at my church. How do you approch some one else? I guess I want to havwe sex now. But I want it to be some-one around my own age.

Yea ive had sex before we both knew we were wanting it so we just went ahead and fulled around and that led on to other things. You gotta use more detail like is he gay or flirt with you and stuff?

pistonfan28
December 21st, 2008, 07:56 PM
No, because i am straight

Archer600
December 21st, 2008, 08:23 PM
I did it with my friend cuz we were both really curious at the time it's ok if ur gay but I'm never doing that again(worst experience of my life)

citysmoker420
December 21st, 2008, 10:44 PM
how old ru? i say if u wanna do it! go for it... but bcoem friends first... and TAKE it slow... guys at are age are very cautious about their sexuality (im straight) and i know that

JohnnyFreight
December 22nd, 2008, 06:12 AM
We are not allowed to post this kind of information, thread has been reported...
... Isn't that considered spam?

Anyways...

Yes I have and in my opinion is it's great. lol
But I really don't know how your situation is going to turn out...
I'm not sure your best bet would be a church going boy, but who knows.

markmcw
December 25th, 2008, 06:48 PM
Has anyone ever did a webcam? I have lol it was fun :P