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[clueless]

The situation is this: I am in 10th grade, she is in 8th. We have been dating for only a little over 2 months. We love each other. I, however, would like to have a relationship that lasts and turns into much more. Is this impossible? (not that any answer will really dissuade me, but still answer it) Also, how do I get her opinion on a lasting relationship?

[Gumleaf]

communication is the key. you need to talk to her and tell her how you feel about her and your relationship. if you don't talk to eachother about how you feel and about your relationship, you'll both end up with expectations that the other person won't know about or understand. talking to eachother is critical!

[clueless]

um, and how might I do that? Like what do I say, how do I phrase it? How do I start the conversation?

[UrGoingDown]

It all matters on each others "ready" level.
If she's not ready, you shouldn't force her.
And how you should start the conversation..probably in a normal manner?
Like don't start with what you're bringing up.
Try easing into it?

[clueless]

Well, I had one idea. Someone is getting married, and I was wondering if we were talking about it and I said something like "Do you think that'll be us someday?". Is this a good, bad, or horrible idea?

[UrGoingDown]

That's actually not a bad idea.
And yet it would all depend on how she handled the situation herself.

[clueless]

How she handled what situation?

[UrGoingDown]

The marriage thing.
How she talks about it, her gestures, tone..you know, basic things.
And how far into it that she seems "interested".
Take into account all that, but thinking too much won't get you far, either.
Just go with the flow, and don't stress it too much.