I have a quiestion

[Glasgow]

okay, well i'm 13, and I don't want to go out with girls yet. I think it is because I am shy, but I might be gay. I don't know, what do you think?

[Elokyn]

well...are you interested in going out with guys or are you just not interested in going out with girls? most of the time boys your age are just extremely shy and afraid of rejection so they tend to steer clear of relationships...and that's fine. It's good because it means that you know you're not ready. You'd be suprised how many people don't know that. (I didn't when I was younger)
I think you should just wait it out. Your feelings will progress and with time you'll figure out what it is that you want :)

[ScotsGirl]

I completely agree with Nykole :D

Just because other guys your age are interested in girls, doesnt mean you have to aswell. Like Nykole said, just wait it out, you'll soon develop feelings when your hormones kick in ;)

:D
xxx

[RowanVer.3.0]

I'm gonna be fourteen in less than a month now. It doesn't have as much to do with horomones as it does shyness. I was almost as horny even when I was 11, but even now, when I'm decently far into the puberty cavern I've always been single....

I love girls, but, I don't feel ready. I've been asked out like, 3-4 times in the last passed three months. Only once I said yes, the girl was hot, but I wasn't really attracted to her personality. And, I got nervous. I had butterflies in my stomach, and only when I realized I wouldn't know what to say and that she was just a fling did I cancel the date. I liked her for all the wrong reasons. I had nothing in common with her. We could get along sometimes, but, I don't know how a date would have went.

Don't worry man, dating has nothing to do with your sexual orientation. One of the girls that asked me out was like "Jeeze! I can't believe you've never gone out with someone!" then I'm like "well.. Neither has Shane.." then she's like "But shane's... Egh..." and then she asked if I was gay.. Man, that got me mad. What a twat. Frankly, there hasn't been a girl yet that's made me feel comfortable enough with myself that I was attracted to enough to make me go out with her. Pretty much, I'm still looking for that 100, or atleast 90%. Hopefully I find it someday.

What turns you on, women or men? Breasts or Penis'

Think on that. Try j/o to both if you like.

[Glasgow]

Wow, thanks for all the support guys. I love girls, but the only girl I kinda feel comfortable around is very un-attrative. I think I will just wait it out, and one day I will make the decision to go out. I think I will start hugging girls, they hug guys all the time, maybe that will make me more intimate with them. I don't know, I am just really shy of looking in their eyes, and really touching them. Maybe I will grow out of it, and I don't really wanna be gay, but I might be bi. Anyways thanks for the help everyone :)

[*BrokenInside*]

I would not worry about being shy and not going out with girls to much at your age you have lots of time to do that.. Dont not go out with someone because they are "un attractive" its on the inside is what counts.. As you get older i am sure you will grow out of it.

*BrokenInside*