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ShatteredWings
November 9th, 2008, 07:19 PM
i'm screwed any way...

why not just go away.. idk..

probalbly ain't thinking straight though...

just... i'm sorry..

yesterday i was told that i have to want it for myself... but.. why? eerything else i do pleases others first

Sapphire
November 9th, 2008, 07:24 PM
You don't have to want it for yourself. But it does help. The first time I stopped self-harming, I did it for my mum. I stopped because I didn't want her to hurt anymore. I lasted over a year and a half without any slip-ups. Don't let anyone tell you that it can't be done. It can.

If you have the determination then you can do anything. Don't let this person come between you and the road to recovery.

Halibut
November 10th, 2008, 05:01 AM
Yes determination is key. You can do it!!! when ever you feel like doing it find something else to do. go for a run or read a book etc.

ShatteredWings
November 10th, 2008, 06:25 AM
Okay, must've been out of it..
Lately i've been having suicidal thoughts.. again...Yeah, i lied when i said i was ok.
everything is coming back.

Buggahh
November 12th, 2008, 04:29 PM
If you ever need to talk. I haven't self harmed in I dont know how long. But when i did i just did, no second thoughts really, but everytime it gets hard, do something else to try and talk your mind off it, feel free to pm me whenever and ill reply as soon as i can, but please if you message someone and you do confind in someone youve already made the first step, talking about it.
We've all got faith in you, if at first you dont succeed try and try again after all.