Scared!

[Ace-.]

Well, i've always been attracted a little to guys ...
And girls aswell,
But usually just ignore my attraction to guys but now i have come to believe i am bi.
I dunno what to do,
Cause i cant tell my parents cause they are extremely homophobic.
If i told them i dunno what they'd do, disown me or summin :(
And if i told my friends i dunno what they would make of me !!
And they'd act differently around me.
I am honestly and truly stuck.
And tbh im quite scared !
What if somebody notices or finds out, or summin... =[

[waterplayer]

if you are really that terified them don't tell anyone, keep it your secret, but still your probably just experiancing raging hormones or something, just relax:cool:

[Ace-.]

Erm i really don't think it's raging hormones im like sure of it this time,
Yeah but i can't keep it locked up forever ,
i dunno

[Halibut]

If your parents do not accept you for who you are then do they really love you.
They might be upset for a while. maybe date a guy and keep it on the downlow until you sure about it. then talk to them once your sure. Tell them how you feel and that you cant help it. If they love you, they should come to accept it :)

[Ace-.]

Mmmm i guess ...
I would date a guy but theres like none here XD
Only online =[
But yeah ... i dunno if they would, well i think my um would be alright with it,
It's just my dad
=[

[george]

Well what makes you think that you are bi now? Are you physically and emotionally attracted to both guys and girls?

Well I would say to stay away from telling anyone whether your bi or not, especially if you're not sure whether you are. Most LGBT teens when they find out they're bi or gay are scared about what would happen if their parents find out and they usually just keep it a secret.

Just because your bi doesn't mean you have to tell it to the whole world, if you're really sure that you're bi then if you want you can try telling a really close friend that would accept you for who you are. If your friends think and feel differently about you then they aren't your real friends, because friends would accept you regardless of your sexuality.

Its normal for you to be scared but first you have to find out whether or not you're really bi-sexual. The only way someone would notice that bi would be how you acted towards guys, not how you act everyday. Being gay/bi doesn't change how you act everyday.

Would you date a guy and have feelings for him? Would you have sex with a guy?
Would you date a girl and have feelings for her? Would you have sex with a girl?

Just a few basic questions to see what you are sexuality wise.

[matt15]

The main thing to consider is:

If you were to date a guy, would you have emotional feelings toward him? If you would (And you would also for girls), you are bi. If you think you would just like to get with a guy, with absolutely no emotional feeling, look at a guy your age's penis, experiment, ETC, then I think you are just going through a stage in puberty.

I went through the same thing around a year ago, and I thought that I was bi. I now know it was just a phase.

If you want to talk about it, just PM me.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

i think that if you are not ready then you should keep it a secret until you are ready to come out