Virginity

[northskater110]

So anyways, i did this to show you all what the percentage of teens having sex was.

The definition of losing your virginity in this poll would be anything with sexual contact, i.e. handjob, blowjob, intercourse, anything involving sexual organs. I am trying to show that there is an increase of sexual activity, and honestly, I really dont get it.

Like i plan on marrying someone, and when i do marry them, i wont have to say, well, i have slept with x girls, there is susy, jean, jill, mary, kate, ect., ect. That is why me and my girlfriend are planning too be chastity. or whatever it is. i plan on marrying her, even though we are 16, we have been going out for 3 yrs now, i love her, AND RESPECT HER, and she does the same.

call me old fashioned, but seriously, do you want someone else getting with your future wife?

THINK ABOUT THAT.

[myskias]

oops.. lol i said no and ment to say yes

[JoshDude]

Well I am a virgin.
Also, I don't care about waiting to be married before sex. If two people want to have sex, have sex!
When I get married, I honestly won't care how many people my wife slept with before me... just like I hope she won't care how many other people I have slept with.

[DarkWingedAngel]

well yea im not a virgin
not to happy about it
in fact i think it was probably one of the biggest mistakes in my life
but i moved on

so w/e i put no

[Θάνατος]

I lost my virginity when I was 14 and it was not that great I wished I would have waited. It has createda lot of my problems. Now I have a kid turning 4 today. I sure miss him.

[theOperaGhost]

I guess this should teach me to read the OP before answering the poll. I chose yes, because I consider only anal or vaginal sex as losing your virginity. My answer is actually no according to what you want though.

[Neverender]

I guess this should teach me to read the OP before answering the poll. I chose yes, because I consider only anal or vaginal sex as losing your virginity. My answer is actually no according to what you want though.

lol. you and me alike. i voted yes, because i believe that only anal or vaginal intercourse causes you to lose your virginity.

[Oblivion]

Yes I am a virgin :)
Virgin pride!

[Rutherford The Brave]

I put no, but really, the definetion of virgin was sent hay wire in my opinion.

[BeautifulSilence]

I didn't read the post before voting, but it wouldn't have matter because I'm not a virgin, either way you look at it.

I'm personally ok with any future partners having previous partners. As long as the sex is safe and I'm not getting infected with anything. If they're legal it's upto them what they want to do with a friend / lover.

If I end up marrying a virgin who stresses over the fact that I'm not... Well, I probably wouldn't have married them in the first place.

[IMHO]
Sexual activities shouldn't be just for married couples, or to make a baby (if we're talking intercourse). Intercourse should express the love you have for one another, and yes, there are other ways to do that, but if you're both ready for sex then why not?

As for the other stuff, like oral sex and hand jobs. Well, that's just experimenting, and possibly recognising your sexuality.

[theOperaGhost]

By the way, I still do consider myself a virgin, even though according to your definition I'm not. I'm going to still call myself a virgin.

[northskater110]

Well, im just saying, if you sleep with someone, you can get a disease from that person, and everyother person they have slept with


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[curiousteen]

i plan to try to keep my virginity till im bout 18-21

[Halibut]

No im not.
I regret it actually.
but what can i do..

[MoveAlong]

me and my girlfriend are planning too be chastity. or whatever it is.

abstinant?

I'm a virgin, and I have no intentions of even having a relationship for a long time. I'm happy :D

[Antares]

Yeps, I gots ma V card :P

[Adude]

Im 14 ill be 15 in 2 months
im not a virgin
[so i voted no]
I regret it...Im not happy
it was a once off..and became a 10 times off
iv only ever had 2 GF and only slept with one of them.
i am still going out with the girl i had sex with..
4 months ago my GF the girl i love..got an abortion
it was later found out i was the one who made her pregnant
in the first place..
she went through so much pain.. :(
But now....
I havent had sex in 4 months :D
so im happy!
so plz dont make my mistakes
its not COOL to have sex
its just foolish and ends up ending bad
so just dont!
NO NO..
People still come to me to ask questions
on how to stop the urge..to sleep with someone
and i cant help them because i cant controll it myself..
so read my signature for your answer! ;)
hope i helped ..

[UrGoingDown]

Sadly, I'm a no.
I lost it when I was 11, and I can tell you I still cry about it.
I'm not proud of not being one at all, I still wish I had it.
I was forced upon, so yeah..but I can't change it now.
Wish I was more strong. :/

[Zephyr]

Nopes.

Cashed in the v-card when I was 15.

[Nihilus]

Im a virgin and I want to be married before I have sex.

[Whisper]

If its anything sexual at all like blow job and such then 5 or 6

If only consensual counts then 18

[Gumleaf]

well after some original regrets i'm happy with my decision to play the v-card at 14.

[nachtspiegel]

I'm not sure how to really answer this question.
I don't really talk to anyone in my real life about this because I happened to mention a few things to one friend of mine and she blew it up and now I look like a man whore.
To another old friend of mine (who told my sisters,) I lied about who it was and how old I was because I didn't want anyone knowing my personal business.
With your definition, I'm not. And either way, I'm not, but it happened with a friend of mine when I was really young, and we never talk about it, especially to our other friends.
There are some periods in my life that I don't remember, that I've primarily blocked out because of abuse.
I don't talk much about sex as far as personal experiences go, but I question myself because I know way more than I should without being as experiences as I come off.
And yeah.
I really don't like this subject.

[theOperaGhost]

I'm like Kodie, I guess. If anything sexual at all counts, about 7.

Otherwise, 19.

[just-me]

woops i pressed the wrong button i clicked yes and it should have been no.
i used to think sex was a big deal. my motto was "i dont want to loose my virgintity i want to give it away" but i had sex with someone i broke up with like not even a week after but it didnt really matter, tbh its REALLY nothing huge, or wasnt in my eyes, seriously theres no big wow, so whats the point in waiting? i didnt find it a big deal.

[Sapphire]

I am not a virgin and I don't regret it.
Tbh, I would actually prefer my future husband to have a little bit of sexual experience.

I don't see pre-marital sex as disrespecting either of the people taking part. The act of having sex between a loving couple is another way of expressing the love they share for each other and pleasing the one they love. It isn't a disrespectful act when it takes place between two lovers.

[new_kid_on_the_block]

yep im virgin kinda wanna have sex but gunna wait til im 16 be legal =]

[Jean Poutine]

damn straight I am.

losing my v-membership is no big priority. I'm not ready yet. 'sides, I want to wait until marriage. or maybe not at all. I hate emotional proximity.

if you take any other definition of virginity...I'm still one. haven't even had my first kiss yet, much less a handjob.

[chazzrox2]

well me and my gf have been going out for almost a year and at 6 months we decided we were ready for sex, so what i'm trying to say is that if two people(or more for that matter lol) love each other its absolutely fine if they have sex. as long as protection is used its perfectly safe and healthy.