Loosing a friend

[MrTeen14]

ok well i have this friend. and he was a really good friend, we were getting closer and closer, and eventually, our friendship peaked, and lately, he has become friends with this kid, known to our school as a punk skater, i mean i am friends with him too, but now, i see him changing the way my friend acts. it makes me kinda sad to think that he is going down this punk road, making him more and more of a jerk, who doesn't care what others say, and is only looking out for himself, he is also becoming more aggressive, and this scares me, not because i can't win in a fight, actually, i pinned him the other day, when he punched me, and now he has a really pissed off attitude, and, now i am like very hurt on the inside, because he might move away, and he doesn't want to even talk to me anymore, well at least most of the time. and he might move to michigan, like 200 miles away, and i might not see him after 8th grade, and i don;t know what to do, because it has really affected our relationship, with all of our other friends too. and i really don't know what to do, because when we tried to talk about it with him, he got defensive and aggressive and he started swearing and angry and he stormed off.


what should i do about him?

[Halibut]

You could try talking to him. You make not like the road he is heading down, but people change. He might realize what he has done and talk to you in a while. It sounds like this guy has major confidence issues. I would try to talk to him before he leaves, and if he does not want to talk then what more can you do. At least you were a good friend showing you cared!

[MrTeen14]

well, i guess i could try that, i mean, he didn't sit with us at lunch today... so i didn't really talk to him at all

[mr.sexy_bomb]

well i am a punk n i am a high schooler and i think you should just talk to him and maybe think why he changed and ask him, that could help