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MrTeen14
November 8th, 2008, 09:45 PM
i used to get sexually aroused by thoughts of guys, then it kind of went away. but lately, they have been comming back more than ever, and with some of my close friends. here are some examples of what happens...
1) the other day on the bus, a friend of mine was wearing athletic shorts, and he kept moving around, so that his leg was bent to his chest, so his shorts were up, and his thighs were showing, and you could of kinda see his butt, and every time he moved like that, i couldn't stop looking. he is really skinny, and is pretty hot, but i am scared of what he might think if he saw me looking at his butt
2) i keep having thoughts of sex with another good friend of mine...weird, but it always gets me a boner
3) every night before i fall asleep, i find myself, playing out a story in my head, about me and a hot guy, never any older than myself, usually a friend i know well.
4) during the test the other day, a "friend" of mine, who thinks it is funny to act gay, moved his shorts, so i could see his dick, i could barely see it, but i can't beleive i kept looking.
what should i do, because this time i think this is more than ever, and way more than the last time i wrote about my problem
george
November 8th, 2008, 09:58 PM
You have to remember that to be gay you have to like guys both physically, which apparently you already do, and emotionally, as in you would date a guy and would have feelings for him.
If you don't think you have emotional feelings for guys then I would have to say your bi-curious or maybe bi-sexual, in the end your going to have to figure it out yourself, we can only help you along.
MrTeen14
November 8th, 2008, 10:22 PM
thats the thing, i feel like i can relate to guys emotionally, if i were dating them, but only a select few of my friends
DarkWingedAngel
November 8th, 2008, 10:29 PM
it is just hormones and puberty
you wont know completely what sex you like until you are older
JoshDude
November 8th, 2008, 10:30 PM
Well, you could be gay, or you just might be bi-curious.
How do you feel about girls? Are you physically attracted to them? Emotionally?
If you like females aswell, then perhaps you could be bisexual. If you don't like females as much, you could be gay.
MrTeen14
November 8th, 2008, 10:42 PM
well, i liked this girl, and she liked me a lot, not sexually, but we were like the best of friends for 2 weeks straight, and i started to notice that we grew more distant, and now we don't talk as much but we are still great friends, but since then, my feelings for her have pretty much dissapeared (the sexual ones)
george
November 8th, 2008, 10:43 PM
thats the thing, i feel like i can relate to guys emotionally, if i were dating them, but only a select few of my friends
Hmmm I'd say your probably bi-sexual but how attracted are you to girls? Would you still like/love a girl and have sex with then? Would you choose a girl over a guy?
Edit: well, i liked this girl, and she liked me a lot, not sexually, but we were like the best of friends for 2 weeks straight, and i started to notice that we grew more distant, and now we don't talk as much but we are still great friends, but since then, my feelings for her have pretty much dissapeared (the sexual ones)
Yeah I'd say your bi-sexual, although it could just be a friend thing, like you feel attracted to your friends because well they're your friends, do you ever look at guys like just walking in the hallway and think they're hot or anything like that?
MrTeen14
November 8th, 2008, 10:47 PM
well not really, because at school i am so worried of my feelings getting the better of me, but yeah i guess, one of my close friends, once or twice
The Batman
November 8th, 2008, 11:32 PM
Well idk i mean you could be gay/bi/straight but I really don't know more about you then what you post. In order for me to know your sexuality I'd have to go inside your head and be you well that's not possible so the only person that knows what your sexuality is is you. You just need to let these things happen and wade them out. Once you get older you'll get a better understanding of it.
MrTeen14
November 8th, 2008, 11:34 PM
well, what do you think, and ask me wquestions to get a better understanding via PM i will answer, i just want an outsiders perspective
Halibut
November 10th, 2008, 04:45 AM
go on a date with a guy then. see how it goes. if your not gay then your not. If you are then you are. Its not wrong to be.
MrTeen14
November 11th, 2008, 09:54 AM
im not good around girls when i talk to them, so even if i knew a guy who would say yes, or was gay or bi, i wouldn't be good around them either
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