Is it gay?

[Justin16]

For a friend to ask if he can see your penis?

My friend asked me a month back and I kind of abused him for asking me. Now he kind of avoids me and I feel bad for getting angry.

Just worried that he was cracking onto me? Or should I just show him?

[The Pretender]

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[pontiacdriver]

For a friend to ask if he can see your penis?

My friend asked me a month back and I kind of abused him for asking me. Now he kind of avoids me and I feel bad for getting angry.

Just worried that he was cracking onto me? Or should I just show him?

My guess is that your friend was simply curious, and he clearly felt very comfortable with you in order to ask such a personal question. Your friend's question had more to do with his probably wanting reassurance that he is normal as opposed to his wanting to do something sexual with you in light of your both being 15.

I would definitely not show your friend your penis as that is something that clearly makes you uncomfortable, but I would take him to the side and let him know that you would still want to be friends as long as you don't have to do anything intimate with him such as showing each other your naked bodies. Only if you feel comfortable doing so, then I guess you can reassure him about puberty and talk about problems each of you have been having and how you each overcame them. However, don't do anything physical with the guy if physical relations is something that really would bother you.

My final word is that I would somehow reconcile with this friend while still preserving each other's dignity. There is no sense in loosing a friend just because a momentary lapse where hormones took over.

[Ardiys]

You shouldn't have been abusive.
And just because he asked to see your penis does not necessarily mean he's gay.
I'm gay, and I've never asked anyone to see their penises.
Don't show him your penis if you don't want to, it's a part of your body which you have the right to display whenever you wish to.

[Ace-.]

I don't consider it to be gay at all...
My dad talks about when he was youngand they always used to compare sizes...
Maybe he feels insecure aout his size and wants to know how big (or small) others are :)
Though i wouldn't show him if you feel uncomfortable doing it :)

[Barin]

it wasnt gay i dont think he was probably just curious or he had raging hormones. If i wer u i would probably just apologize and just show it to him unless ur uncomfortable.

[marktheman]

If he was coming on to you I don't think he'd just come right out and ask to see your penis. He probably wanted to compare to reassure himself that his was okay. You shouldn't have gotten mad, just tell him you're not comfortable showing him.

[northskater110]

yea, he might just wanna know what he is in comparison. dont worry about, he is prob not gay, just in the curious stage.

[Justin16]

yea, he might just wanna know what he is in comparison. dont worry about, he is prob not gay, just in the curious stage.He was over today and I kinda said sorry.

I also gave him a look, only for 30 seconds. But wasn't hard as I couldn't get hard.

[myskias]

No offence or anything but you might have hurt your friend because he might have been curious. Abusing him about a subject that is so sensitive might make him feel really awkward and weird around you. So i suggest talking to him about it and telling him that its normal to think these thoughts (because it sure as hell is) and make him feel comfortable again.

[BlackBetty]

He is probably just curious.. I would not have yelled at him.

[myskias]

yeah.. well just try to make things better between you and ur friend. cause you dont wanna loose someone over something as small as this

[waterplayer]

Do what you think you should do, but i learned from experiance that stuff like this can ruin freindships

[Ace-.]

He was over today and I kinda said sorry.

I also gave him a look, only for 30 seconds. But wasn't hard as I couldn't get hard.

how did he react ??

[Halibut]

No i dont think so. I know some of my friends have shown each other lol. i thought it was weird at first but like. gosh, its not like girls dont show there boobs at sleepovers lol. (truth and dare with 10 girls) lol it was intresting. But no i think its pretty normal, maybe he just wants to know if he is a normal size.:yeah: