pain during sex?

[Justin16]

I had sex for the first time and anyway as I was pumping (going in and out) for the first minute the tip of my dick kind of stinged.

I thought only girls felt pain first time?

[Mzor203]

You say it "sort of stinged"? It doesn't sound like it was too bad.

Anyway, first, are you circumcized or uncicrumcized? If you aren't, then it could be because your head is very sensitive,so the motion may have pulled the foreskin back and irritated the head.

Second, did you use a condom? If you did, then the stinging probably wasn't from any part of sex unless, as I said, it irritated the head if you're uncircumcized.

If you didn't, I still think that not much could have caused it, and that it could just be irritation.

So anyway, if it hurts any more and you're worried, you may want to just get it checked out by a doctor.

[Requin]

Rex has pretty much cleared this one up. Rep+
Are you sure it wasn't just the feeling of you having sex, if you get what I mean? I expect as Rex said that it was just the friction and other stuff like that....

But my main point is that I don't think it's a huge problem you've got here, but if it's still hurting and worrying you still, see a doctor, it's the safest option to take if that's the case.

The only thing I'm concerned about here is the fact that your under age. Please tell me that you were protected?

[Justin16]

Rex has pretty much cleared this one up. Rep+
Are you sure it wasn't just the feeling of you having sex, if you get what I mean? I expect as Rex said that it was just the friction and other stuff like that....

But my main point is that I don't think it's a huge problem you've got here, but if it's still hurting and worrying you still, see a doctor, it's the safest option to take if that's the case.

The only thing I'm concerned about here is the fact that your under age. Please tell me that you were protected?I'm circumsized.

[notsure101]

If your un-circ then mabey you should have poulled it back r your head is sensitive

[Justin16]

If your un-circ then mabey you should have poulled it back r your head is sensitiveRead the post above your reply!

[pontiacdriver]

I had sex for the first time and anyway as I was pumping (going in and out) for the first minute the tip of my dick kind of stinged.

I thought only girls felt pain first time?

I think you are the fellow who is quite tall (based upon other threads), and I may be going out on a limb here. If there is a significant size difference between you and your partner, then perhaps you were positioned in an uncomfortable angle thus causing your penis to be contorted in an odd position. Perhaps the skin on your penis got stretched and pulled due to friction if you were not using lube or if your girlfriend was not producing sufficent amount of natural lube. There is also a chance that if you were using spermicide or some lubricant that it could have irritated your urethra. Also, with this being your first sexual encounter there is a chance you were experiencing things you had never felt before thus causing discomfort.

Clearly, if you experience this problem again when you have sex, then you need to figure out if your position is bad, there is too much friction, whether you had a bad reaction to lube or the condom, or if you might even have a UTI.